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love life and friendsships
im going out with the best guy ever his name is paul i love him 2 death he calls me almost everyday and i just love everything about him. I dont know if my friend is jealous or just mad. Well my problem is im sick of hearing that my friend says the me n paul are like married just because we hang out we go 2 eachothers houses, go to movies,mall, and friends house's. i mean i think she is jealous bc her bf austin doesnt call her talk 2 her or do anything with her the only thing they have dont together in the 5 months that they have been going out is that they say one movie and saw eachother at a foot ball game well i just want 2 tell my friend 2 shut up bc she's jealsous but i mean i dont want 2 be mean bc she is my friend i just dont know wat to do help me plz
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Talk to her about it. Ask her why she's is being the way she is. You don't want to come out and just tell her she's acting like she is jealous because that would be mean and cause more anger than is needed. Explain to her how you feel and try to see her side of the situation. She might be having problems that she doesn't feel like she can talk to you about.
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well tell her that it's bothering you that she keeps saying those things about you
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I think you should confront her about it first and tell her that you really don't like her saying what she says. She should stop, if she doesn't then you need to just tell her straight up. She may be mad at you for a while but she'll get over it.
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wel talk to ur friends boyfriend and her. get them to do things together. invite them on a double date. if u get her to start doing things with her boyfriend than maybe she will shutup. good luck...
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Aww, I know what you mean. Your friend probably is jealous because she wants the relationship that you and your boyfriend have. You have to be really considerate to her feelingts because she might be going through a lot right now. I'm guessing the reason for her acting the way she is has to do with her boyfriend. It's sad that she has that kind of boyfriend. So maybe take that into heart and try to picture what she's going through. I know you love to talk about your boyfriend but be aware that if you talk about him all of the time that might be what's getting her mad. This is a time she might need you. Maybe try to talk to her and tell her your sorry about her relationship with her boyfriend, but you loves yours with your boyfriend and it's important to you if she can accept that. It's a good thing to talk to her about this. You need to be able to feel comfortable with your decisions, and you've found the right guy for you so it's always helpful to have her support that. If her comments make you mad you need to speak up and tell her that they do, otherwise she'll continue to say those things. Offer to help her out if she needs it though. You should be really fragile when you talk to her about her boyfriend. It's likely that she's not having the best time with him, and she really wants what you have with your boyfriend so bad. Even spending some time with her may help. I know it seems like I'm referring to your friend more than you, but understand that you're needs are just as important as hers. So you should tell her how you feel and get it out of your system. If she still doesn't get the hint or come around, just let her settle down for a couple days and go enjoy your time with Paul. Keep staying happy, hun!
Love,
Mandee
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well the best thing to do would be to say why are you being so rude ask her why she is constantly talking about you and paul tell her that u too like spending time together dont be rude but get your point across good luk let me know how it works out sweet<3
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