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should I dump?
OK, see I'm going out with this guy...and he's really really sweet and nice and everything, he's what I think every girl would want. BUT the only thing is...he's not good looking....at all I guess...he's not like the ugliest person on earth...but he's just not cute at all. And like I'm afraid people at my school will make fun of me, because you know, Blue Valley..think about it..girls here..we judge...what do I do? Do I dump the guy? or do I keep on going out with this guy and ignore everything?
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It all depends on what you feel. If you feel comfortable with him, treats you nicely and you like him even though he's not so physically appealing then stay with him. Don't worry about what other people say, don't let others control your life, make your own desicions based on your feelings.
Plus, sometimes it's a lot better to be with a guy who's beautiful inside, than with a handsome one that has a bad personality.
My advice is, if you like him stick with him, don't worry about what people say, [it's your life].
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Sorry it is so long but this will really help!!!!Just ignore everything because sometimes girls do that because they don't have a boyfriend and you do or they want that kind of guy and they just don't want you to have him. Don't dump him because who cares if people laugh at you because if they are not your friends who cares and if they are your friends they are mean to you (not joking though) but if they are mean then they shouldn't be your friend and if you want them to be your friend b/c they are popular then you shouldn't care b/c they aren't good enough for you. Keep the guy because he is worth it. You will have other boyfriends in the future and this won't be held against you b/c take a chance and not many people do remember that. If they do than that is not your problem. Please rate i did try to help.
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if you like him - don't dump him.
if any of the girls say anything ..
just be like
"you know what? shut up. he's sweet & nice ... and he treats me like a queen"
because
looks aren't everything.
my friend is probably the most popular girl in our school.
she's really pretty.
as for her boyfriend?
he's not attractive..
but the reason she's going out with him is because he's nice.
& sweet.
i mean ..what more could you want?
look at your boyfriend. maybe he is cute & you just don't see it .. look at his eyes..are they beautiful?
his hands, even, .. his smile..
just look at him
i'm sure you'll find something to love.
not every guy can be orlando bloom ;]
i learned that from experience!!
♥ woo i hope that helped!!
good luck!
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well this had happened to me.people were shocked when they found out that I was going out with this guy because I uasually go out with pretty good looking guys,but I didn't care what they thought as long as I knew how I felt about him.The first few weeks of your relationship will be kinda hard but then every one will just get used to seeing ya'll together and they'll get over it.look you shouldn't care what people think of you,after high school you probably will never see them again so all that hard work on trying to put an act will just be a waste of time.well I hoped I helped you just a little.well if you need anything else you can go to my advice column and ask
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If you are happy with him and you like him for who he is, that's all that should matter. Just because other people don't find him attractive doesn't mean that you shouldn't go out with him
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well do whatever you feel is right if you feel you should dump him then do so if you feel you should continue to date him then keep the realtionship going and if the kids at your school do make fun of you just ignore them because sometimes other people get jealous it's your choice not anyone elese's but yours do what you feel is right sit down and think should i dump him? or shouldn't i? then go on and make your choice from there.
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Igonore everything..If you really like this guy then it won't matter what the other kids think about you dating him.
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ignore everything.. who cares what they say?! if you really like him.. you wont be worried about wut ppl think or about the way he looks.
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keep going out with him as long as you truly like him. you said he's not ugly, so why would people make fun of you? as you said, he's what every girl would want, so consider yourself lucky that you don't have a beautiful jerk. you hav e a regular, amazing guy.
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I say you keep going out with him. forget all the losers who say he's ugly. just say something like, "well he's gorgeous the way he is" but you wouldn't be meaning look wise. Ya know? I think if you really like him and he's perfect like you describe him,. you shouldn't let him go.
Hope this helped.
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personally i don't see why you're going out with him if hes unattractive... but you are in the first place so why be a total placid bitch and just shove him off randomly now that a little realization of reality has crept into your head? and no it's never a good idea to ignore everything, you should have been paying attention in the first place. basically just keep the poor guy until you think of a valid reason to dump him
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Dear Blue Valley,
Keep him. Everyone deserves a chance! If hes got that many good qualities hes in need of one. If anyone at school says anything bad simply tell them you want love not looks. Because if you were with this guy on a date you would be having fun..compared to someone who went out with someone just because of looks and the guy ended up having a horrible personality...which ment they had the worst time on there date.
<3spoiledandtoxic
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Honeslty I think your being a Brat.
Id dump him, if i were you, so maybe he could find another girl who isnt so stuck up, about his looks. Besides if you really wanted to date him, you'd see beyond the looks.
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As one can see from the great epic Star Wars, all that is evil is ugly, and all that is good is also good looking. I must therefore conclude that your bf is in fact evil. Perhaps he has not made that apparent, much like the Sith who have hidden their true identity from us for years, but he is evil deep down nonetheless. Your task, young padawan, is to dump him and report him to the nearest representative of the forces of good (if in doubt just look for the prettiest person around). Hope I helped :)
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Keep going out with the guy. If you really like him then the looks won't matter. But it's your choice.
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the guy is sweet, caring, makes you happy..right? thats what counts!!! if you live your life listening to others and what they think..when will YOU ever bee happy? stay with this guy..he sounds special
-meliss
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I think the main question is, are you attracted to him? Does he turn you on? If he does, who gives a crap what the other girls have to say about him?
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well i'm not going to give you some bullshit answer and lie to you .. i'm oging to be straight up .. don't be shallow .. i mean if hes a nice guy and he treats you well .. well then yea pretty much every girl wants that .. and you shouldnt really care what people think of you or how people judge you . .i mean just be yourself .. if you like the guy and you're ahppy with him then why would you ruin your happiness just because of some stupid people who might judge you?? the only question here to ask .. is:: are you happy with him?? if you are then there should be no problem .. but if your not then yea dump him.
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If you really like the guy...how he treats you, how he makes you feel etc. then continue to date him and have a great experience. Live your life your own way and don't live by what others think
are important qualities for a person to have in order to be a part of your life.
Or do just the opposite and risk being miserable.
Not every good person is pretty or cute.
Not every pretty and cute person is good either. A person perceived as great looking at first glance can get darn ugly when their personality is revealed. No offense intended but sounds like you go to school with plenty of ugly people as far as personality goes. :)
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