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ok, i really like this girl at school and shes the only girl ive like at my new school. i told a couple of my best friends that i liked her and it slowly spread throughout the class to her. her friend asked if i am going to ask her out or not and im really not sure because she has been known to dump boys after 2 days(thats the record for her) some of her friends said that shes interested in me but i dont want to get my heart broken like i did with my last girlfriend. should i take this chance (link)
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i think you should take the chance maybe this might be the best thing that happens to you and if u get your heart broken it will heal during time, but do you really wanna stay wondering for a while wat would have happened if you did take the chance.but do wat you think is right if you think your heart can bear the pain do it if not don't go through with it
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well my hairs naturally wavy/curly so after I shower (at night) I usually scrunch it with some gel. But when I wake up, my hair flattens out and I lose my curls. I cant stand curling my hair and I was wondering if theres anything I can do to not make it flatten out or what to do in the mourning to fix it? thanks (link)
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try srunching your hair in the morning right after u take a shower i have wavy/curly hair too and that works really good for me.i don't do it at night cause when i wake up in the morning my hair looks like it's a frow lol so i juss wake up in the morning and take a shower and then scrunch it.
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i am basically clue less right now. everyone is against me going otu with my boyfriend. i dont know why but i have been with him for 7 months. that is a long time but i have been putting up with it but for the past week or so my bf has been telling how can you claim somthing that you dont see or touch often.. i noe this is kinds of pothedic but i have only seen my bf like 10 times in 7 months. it is makin me thing about everything my best friend has been telling me about how i should leave him and move on. i LOVE my boyfriend to death. i would do anything for him. he is my best friend and lover. it hurts so much knowing that everyone dis aprroves of us. from family to friends. mostly bc i am whtie and he is black but what hurts more is that i feel like i dont even have his trust. he says it isnt me but it is how mcuh he has been hurt in the past that is why he thinks i do stuff wit other guys there. and lately i have been thinkin about it but never can bc i love him so much. i dont know what to do. and what scary is the other day (4 days ago) someone called his cell but he put the house phone down so i wouldnt hear what it said but idk if it was a girl or guy. and it scarys. what do i do? i am sorry this is long but i need advice bc this is burnin me to hold it all in my heart. (link)
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I think you should let him go.this is a quote "if you love someone let them go,if they return to you it was meant to be,if they don't their love was never yours to begin with." so juss think about it if he returs to you the love for you is true.if he doesn't it was never really real.but if u think he's the love of your life stay with him
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you know the guy tuckermen well my mom a long time ago before she meet my father she would go to a bar and get into bed wiht guy because she needed someone to love her but shes canged .i dont wanna be like that but am i seling myself sort i dont think i can do any better and i think im also a negitive person .when i d something i think of bad thigs that will happen if i do that and nothing good and i hate that and my freind kayliegh she 13 too shes into older guys 15 older doesnt madder how old well id ontthink 30 but and i think tukermen has feelings for her and im thinking what about his girlfreind .
how do i stop from sellling myself sort and is my BEST FRIEND a slut???i dont think she is but i really confused and do you have yahoo you seem cool and i think your really good at your advice .im 13 and female if its not overus (link)
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well your mothers past is her past it's her mistakes not yours.your mothers past should also not interfere with yours cause your,your own person.I'm not trying to judge her but why would you try to find love at a bar.if you do that you'll only get hurt in the process.look guys at bars and clubs are just in it,to hit it to quit it.you don't want anybody like that you want somebody to love you for who you are.that doesn't hurt your feelings that doesn't make you cry cause they hurt your feelings.looks aren't every thing in a person I know I might sound stupid but do you want a good looking guy who hurts your feelings and makes you cry cause he's constantly hurting your feelings,or do you want a guy who is not that good looking,but not the uglyest in the world treat you like his queen and makes you actually experience what true love is.a guy who will do anything for you cause he truly loves you.it's ok to be a little negetive because that shows you think of consequences,thats how I am like if I want to do something bad I think of the worst thing that would happen and then when I do.I ask myself if I can deal with it if it does happen,but if you feel like you are to negative try to change it tell your self ok I need to stop this cause it's making me unhappy.well I really don't know your friend to tell if she is a slut maybe she just likes mature guys and thats why she goes out with older guys.and if he likes your friend hes not worth shit cause I bet you your better than her.and yes I do have yahoo and thanks about my advice.o and if I didn't answer a ? just ask me again cause I really didn't have very much time to write you back.I was busy ok well I hope I helped you chick
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Ok theres this boy and i really like him but theres this girl i have known since ever and she is such s butthead cause like everytime i tell her who i like she goes and starts flirting and stuff with him! it makes me so mad! and after awhile she ends up goin out with him and she goes and rubs it in my face i cant take it anymore! and this has happened with every single guy! does anyone have any ideas for me to get noticed or asked out by this guy? (link)
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well first of all don't tell your friend that you like him cause some how she always ends up being with your crushes.well don't be as easy as your friend cause thats how she sounds to me don't be all up on him like she usually is on all your crushes.don't you know that guys want what they can't have.they like a competition.look you have something your friend doesn't have thats respect well if you don't have that you have it now j/p.just don't be like her all over guys cause to tell you the truth to much of that is annoying.
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okay well i have something really big to tell my parents and im not sure how to tell them. well i really want to tell them that i want to have a baby (16/f) everyone says i should but i really dont get along with my parents.. well its not that we dont get along its just that we arent that close. should i tell them now or should i wait till have a bf that i have been dating for a while because i am currently single. i know eitehr way they are going to flip but i dont want to screw things up. so how do i tell them and when? (link)
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well like you said you don't want to screw things up but either way you will no parent wants to her that there daughter wants a kid at the age of 16.so if you have a boyfriend and if you tell them that you want to have a kid "they'll think is she having sex and if so I don't want her to be going at with him."then you'll just make them wonder even more.so what I'm trying to say is just tell them right now since your single.be like mom,dad this might be a shock to ya'll but I wanna have a baby.I'm sorry but thats what I really want."tell then how you feel that you feel like something is missing and that having a baby might not make you feel as empty.just lie or if thats how you really feel then tell them.
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ok when my grade started i saw this guy named tuckermen and i thought that i was head over heels for him but my friend feels the same all about him and i felt like im competing for him .
and about 2 months ago i found out that he didnt like me only like a kinda friend and i was ok with that and i stop flirting with him everything i cut off all feelings for him.but now i donno i have now started flurting wiht him but i cant help that i do that with every guy now .and everytime he says anything like you still like me dont you i always say NO but im not sure i wanna not like him he called me fat witch i am but im going on a diet to lose wieght and what i hate is i now have started to care what people thought of me and uh i dont care i'd do anything in public who cares what people think but if hes in the croud i couldnt id be making a complete fool of myself and i just wana tel everyone in the would to kiss my ass but uh i dont wanna like him i wanna hate him i wanna tell everyone i still dont like him without lieing but i cant what do i do i cnat stop thinking about him and no one knows at all they think that i think thats tucker is dirt and i wanna think that and for a month ive hated him but why do i think that i still like him i think i love him but im only 13 i couldnt and he doenst fell the same way and im never ganna cange myself for a guy but i cnat help but try i wanna see what will happen and this is wierd and i belive in zodiac things so bear with me
When a down-to-earth Taurus and a dreamy Pisces come together, they often find harmony. Level headed Taurus is more grounded and has a mind for what is important in life. Day-dreaming Pisces can show Taurus how to reach for the stars. Together they have balance. Pisces is the balloon – always floating around in the clouds. Taurus is the string, grounding it back to earth. What would one be without the other?
im the Pisces but what do i do i showed this to kayliegh the one taht likes him and she flipped her lid and tucker has a 9th grader as a girlfriend i think he wouldnt dump her for me .kayliegh seems to be so jelouse and i dont think she wants to trade and ive had dreams about me and him nothing sexual but nice dreams only like kissing and i kno it will never happen and why am i so negitve im goofy around my friends but if im planning to do somthing wroung i think of what will happen so i plan on not to do it and if i plan on doing somthing good i think oof somthing bad thatw ill come out of it and im 13 girl and thank you for reading this im sorry its so long but trust me i cut it down !!!!!!!! HELP i rate high all 5s promiss anything .::katie::. help help help (link)
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ok well why do you want something that every one else does.just forget about him I know it might be hard but it's for the best,trust me.this guy seems like a real jerk if he really cared about you or at least your feelings he shouldn't of said that what a freaken ass.look you don't need this guy and you also don't need an other enemy,so don't hate him cause if you do imagine what he will call you behind your back and you don't want anybody talking mess about you.just ignore him when he talks to you or if you wanna talk to him just cut your replys short when he talks to you like yes,no,ok,thats fine,something like that.then he'll be like man whats up with her is she mad at me,what did I do.did I hurt her feelings.you'll be on his mind if you do something like that. just give him the cold shoulder then people will be like hey may be she's right she doesn't like him anymore.well I hope I helped you at least just a little.If you did like what I told you,you can ask me more question I'll help
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 month,tomorrow.We have been planning on going to the movies, but neither one of us thought about it being our anniversary. I just now remembered.So, I'm just wondering if I should get him anything for it? or what?
any help would be appreciated!
I rate 5's!
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I really don't think you should cause first of all it's only been a month and what if you get him something and he doesn't,then he'll feel bad cause he didn't get you anything and what if ya'll brake up and you end up hating him you'll be like man why did I spend my money on this jerk he was just a waste of time.so just don't just to be on the safe side maybe when it's a little longer you should think about it ok chick
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OK, see I'm going out with this guy...and he's really really sweet and nice and everything, he's what I think every girl would want. BUT the only thing is...he's not good looking....at all I guess...he's not like the ugliest person on earth...but he's just not cute at all. And like I'm afraid people at my school will make fun of me, because you know, Blue Valley..think about it..girls here..we judge...what do I do? Do I dump the guy? or do I keep on going out with this guy and ignore everything?
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well this had happened to me.people were shocked when they found out that I was going out with this guy because I uasually go out with pretty good looking guys,but I didn't care what they thought as long as I knew how I felt about him.The first few weeks of your relationship will be kinda hard but then every one will just get used to seeing ya'll together and they'll get over it.look you shouldn't care what people think of you,after high school you probably will never see them again so all that hard work on trying to put an act will just be a waste of time.well I hoped I helped you just a little.well if you need anything else you can go to my advice column and ask
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well first i wanna apoligize for this being so long!!!!
i sometimes feel depressed and like the world doesnt want me not all the time but most of the time!!!i have fun with my family sometimes but we argue all the time! then sometimes find myself faking injures so i can get medication but when my mom tells me to go get it from the cabinet i take more than im supposed to so it can make me go to sleep so i can hear anymore arguing! Then i find myself ctting constantly over stupid things! Then ill write sucide poems i keep them all in a box and later on when im fine i read them it makes me more depressed. I started smoking b/c i heard somewhere that it calms you down. sometimes i get frunk just so i cant remember what happened last night. i fell like im the worst person ever and i really want to die! does anybody have any advice? plz help
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don't feel like that.what you should do is get a paper and write everything you like about your self get to know your self try to do this twice a week and gradually add more stuff and pretty soon you'll fill up the front and the back of it.this is what I do when I can't hold anything anymore I just write it down in a spiral and let all my feelings out.I don't like the thought of a diary so I call it a journal.just remember that paper is more patient then people it will always be there when you need it.just have a positive attitude even when you think your on the verge or when things get thick and thin.so just get that paper and let it all out.If reading your poems makes you more depressed
after you write them rip them up cause you let your feelings out so just rip it up ok.well I don't know you but I don't like to see people like that so I hope I helped you at least just a little.
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So now that me and my boyfriend are broken up, I'm wondering, when I should start to ease into flirting again? I dont want to immeadiatly jump into it since it's shallow and I know I should wait. Plus can anyone name interesting places to meet new guys? (Besides the mall, I dont get to go there often) Thanks & I'll rate. (link)
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well why look for some one,let love find you.why do you want to jump into another relationship so quickly.just wait for some guy that you really like so you won't be wasting your time and you know that you won't be.do you get me.like don't just go for any guy wait for that special one not your soul mate but one that makes you feel all warm and good inside.what I'm trying to say be with a guy you don't just like.be with one you'll know you'll love
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Ok so I have this freind and she' s one of my really really good freinds. She has been annoying me like crazy for various reasons. Like when I go to kiss a guy she just stares at me, when we go to someone's house she's so clingy. Then, she has a Wbshots pasge and she has this really slutty picture of her. Her boob is hanging and and she drew over it but you can still tell. And she took all these pics of her with this ugly look on her face and she thinks she's all hot.See she used to have this one freind and she ditched her so she is really clinging with me and one day me teacher was liek you and your sidekick adn she got all mad now she's all mean and I'm so annoyed wiht her. I don't know what to do. And also I have alot of clothes but you know not like a ton and she has sooo much and eveyrhting I buy she buys and I am such an independent person I don't want to be like her and she is annoying me! So please help me with how I can deal with this crap! (link)
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ok well thats how me and my best friend are she's always trying to copy me and it's annoying as hell some times I just want to slap the crap out of her.you know why shes been annoying you so much besides that shes always trying to copy you because ya'll have been spending way to much time together.not just cause she's clingy but cause ya'll spend every waking minute with her.thats the way I am I like to be independent.I'm not the copy cat I set the trend.but I totally get you just tell her hey "look don't get me wrong I like to be your friend but don't you feel like we've been spending to much time together.I think that we should give each other a little more room don't you"
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This boy I was going out with says we should be just friends because he thinks we are too young to be going out(we are both 13). So we have been talking more as friends than we have when we were going out but when we talk he seems annoyed of me and whenever i ask to hang out as friends he comes up with an exuse. I dont know why I am really confused. (link)
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I'm sorry chick but it seems like he just wants to be friends.If he wanted to be with you he would me trying to call you and just trying to get your attention if he really did.o you know what may be he does want to be with you,but hes not allowed to date yet.but who knows guys are confusing only they know what there talking about.well just ask him if hes allowed to date if he can't then theres your answer
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Okay, my b/f and I have been going out for almost 4 months now. Before we went out we were really good friends. I like him a lot and I know that he likes me a lot too. But I feel like I'm always looking and flirting with other guys. I'm kind of getting bored with our relationship I guess. What I'm asking is if I should stay in the relationship .. and if anyone has any suggestions for what I should do ? I don't want to hurt him or our friendship.
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well I think that you kinda answered your question if your wondering if you should end the relationship thats saying you should.if you don't want to. tell him your getting bored that ya'll need to do more stuff to get the spark back.and if you really like your boyfriend you'll stop flirting with other guys,but you know why your flirting with other guys because he's not satisfing you enough so if you just fix that little problem everything will be fine.just say something like this"look this is kinda hard for me to say but I feel like our relationship is not the same from when we started to go out I feel like we lost our spark,like I want you to be more affectionate.I want you to be more loving towards me"
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The only boy Id ever want to be with is like eight hours away. I want him. I dont think i could live if I didnt at least talk to him. I called him last night. His voice is magical. Sooo cute. Hes completly gorgeous. And hes so nice. Why cant more guys be just like him ? Its not fair. When I talked to him I hung up right away. But I couldnt help it. Just the sound of his voice left me totally speechless. So you think fourteens to young to be in love ? You think just becasue were so far apart its not love ? You think wrong. He told me he loved me. I believe him. Hes not the kind of person who would just say that to anybody. UGH ! HES SO GODDAMN CUTE ! I hate this year. He is absolutley ah-mazing. Hes friends with my friends cousin. Unfortunatly not close enough friends to be invited on road trips up here. What am I supposed to do. Hes really cute. And he always makes fun of me and stuff.. but not in a mean way. You can tell hes trying to be cute because he always calls me a loser with a :) put after it. Why cant I get him out of my head ? I think about him everynight all night. Im so confused. (link)
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I feel The same way about this guy he's constantly on my mind.He's never out of my mind every morning I wake up I think about him if he's still sleepin or if he's thinking about me too.I don't think were to young to be in love I think thats stupid cause were human to we all have feelings.I think your in love cause that how I feel.I'm crazy about him I just want the whole world to know.well just get the courge to actually have a real conversations with him on the phone don't hang up.just be like hey whats up I just wanted to call to see how you've been it feels like I haven't talked to you in years and I was just wondering what was going on in your life.do something like that I bet you it'll work
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So basicly sense I was little ive been vergbaly and physicly abused.. and I really cant take it anymore I have gotten to the point i feel so low about myself I could crawl in a corner and hide for ever. I have reported my parents and so have other people but nothing has happend. What should I do now?
Someday something will happen and no one will be able to fix it. Im scared (link)
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don't feel like that.what you should do is get a paper and write everything you like about your self get to know your self try to do this twice a week and gradually add more stuff and pretty soon you'll fill up the front and the back of it.this is what I do when I can't hold anything anymore I just write it down in a spiral and let all my feelings out.I don't like the thought of a diary so I call it a journal.just remember that paper is more patient then people it will always be there when you need it.just have a positive attitude even when you think your on the verge or when things get thick and thin.so just get that paper and let it all out
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Is it weird that I love my daddy more than my mom?
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no it's not,for me it's the opposite.my mom spoils me alot so I think thats why,but I really appreciate her and I truely love her,and my dad he's the mean one.don't get me wrong I love my dad but I think I just appreciate her more
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OK, My best friend Melissa (yeah, that's right lol) introduced me to her cousin, Nate who turned out to be a GREAT guy. And then on my birthday, Nate asked me out! So we've been going out, and just recently he came to visit Melissa for Christmas (he lives in Indiana, and i live in Pennsylvannia), and he's still in town. Infact, he was supposted to come over today with Melissa. Now, Tuesday in the morning he's leaving. And i'm really sad, because i LOVE this kid. I have NEVER felt like this. I'm in love, i think! And he has to go back, but i've been thinking about it, and my dad knows alot of people in Indiana, and maybe we could go visit? maybe he could come down more, but i dont know how to ask his parents you know? Cause Nate said the next time he might come down was this SUMMER! I love this guy, and i want to be with him always. So what do i do? Does anyone know how to deal with this???????????????!!!!!! (link)
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well there really isn't anything to do but to wait because you can't go over there without your parents and he can't come till the summer and sorry chick but summers a few months away.just wait for him if you say that you love him.I know it's hard because you don't get to see him as much as you want to,but you'll make it.talk to him on the phone but it will be pretty expensive to,or write to him thats not expensive.tell your friend melissa may be she can help you see him.I hope I helped
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im 15 years old, i no im not old enough to have sex yet, but if the opprotunity comes i have a question...im really worried, im not big enough to wear a tampon. and its been that way ever since i started my peroid. i flirt with guys a lot, and i want to do more then just flirtin somtimes, but im afaird, that if i start doing more than just flirtin suck as fingering or actually sex that it will hurt me a lot, bcuz im not big enough.. i was wondering if maybe someone could tell me if it would hurt bcuz im not big enough or if im just worring for no reason?! please help. thanks a lot. (link)
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the hymen is a thin piece of skin that stretches across the opening to the vagina.All girls are born with a hymen, but sometimes there is so little tissue that there may appear to be none. Little or lots, either way is perfectly normal and okay.If a woman's hymen hasn't been stretched open before she has sexual intercourse, inserting a penis or a sex toy usually stretches it (some people call it "popping the cherry"). Some girls don't feel any pain when this happens, but others do. There might even be a little bit of bleeding if the hymen wasn't stretched open before intercourse.
if your tissue is thick then it will hurt more than if you have a thin hymen because when you insert the penise it will be harder to go through the barrier if it's thicker.but everybody is different and some girls hymens are stretched open without having intercourse but by simply playing sports, horseback riding, or riding a bicycle can stretch open the hymen.but be sure if you really want to do this because loosing your virginity is a big thing well at least for me.hey somebody said to us a lube that doesn't work that can cause a rash and iritation just us a latex condom that already has lubracation and you won't catch any stds and you won't get pregnant if you us it proberly.thats what one of my teachers told me.weird huh,but she's a cool teacher.I hope I helped you go to this web site you'll learn so many things teenwire.com
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ive been dating my boyfriend for a long time now, a year and a half almost and he still makes excuses to his friends. his friends say he hangs out w/ me too much. when im over and a friend calls, he wont tell them im over. his friends will invite him over and ill be at his house and he will say "let me ask" and he will put the phone down and wait then pick it up and say hes not allowed, he wont ask cuz im over. why doesnt he just tell his friends that hes with me? why does he have to hide it? he is really good at telling lies.... but i KNOW he doesnt lie to me. (link)
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well he's probably embaressed because he thinks his homeboys will rag on him cause he's always with you.it's ok I guess if he did that once in a while but not all the time.I would understand it if he did it once in a while.but talk to him let him know how your feeling about that.when he does that again stop him right then and there and tell him why are you lieing to your friends when your with me.are you embarresed to be with me or what I want to know.ask him something like that.well I hope I helped you at least just a little
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