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what to do
i am basically clue less right now. everyone is against me going otu with my boyfriend. i dont know why but i have been with him for 7 months. that is a long time but i have been putting up with it but for the past week or so my bf has been telling how can you claim somthing that you dont see or touch often.. i noe this is kinds of pothedic but i have only seen my bf like 10 times in 7 months. it is makin me thing about everything my best friend has been telling me about how i should leave him and move on. i LOVE my boyfriend to death. i would do anything for him. he is my best friend and lover. it hurts so much knowing that everyone dis aprroves of us. from family to friends. mostly bc i am whtie and he is black but what hurts more is that i feel like i dont even have his trust. he says it isnt me but it is how mcuh he has been hurt in the past that is why he thinks i do stuff wit other guys there. and lately i have been thinkin about it but never can bc i love him so much. i dont know what to do. and what scary is the other day (4 days ago) someone called his cell but he put the house phone down so i wouldnt hear what it said but idk if it was a girl or guy. and it scarys. what do i do? i am sorry this is long but i need advice bc this is burnin me to hold it all in my heart.
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I think you should let him go.this is a quote "if you love someone let them go,if they return to you it was meant to be,if they don't their love was never yours to begin with." so juss think about it if he returs to you the love for you is true.if he doesn't it was never really real.but if u think he's the love of your life stay with him
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I think it'd be best to let him go. Ya'll can still be friends, but if you've only seen him 10 times in 7 months, something is wrong.
Also, people who love eachother shouldn't need to hide things like phone conversations... It's crazy.
Are you really going to college? You probably shouldn't choose a college based on where your boyfriend is going. That's almost always a bad idea.
Whatever you decide to do, I wish you luck.
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first lets look at the facts, you have ONLY seen him ten times in the last 7 MONTHS. I find it extremely difficult to believe you LOVE this guy. Take my advice and think about what you are writing, if you really loved him to death why have you only seen him like 10 times in the last 7 months The best thing for you to do is take a break from him and from this subject. You need to think about what your goals are and do what you need to do to make your goals happen. Take up a hobby that makes you feel good, focus more on your life then on this guy. You sound like you are in a unhealthy relationship and the only way to change it is to realize that there is something that is not right.
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