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Okay, my b/f and I have been going out for almost 4 months now. Before we went out we were really good friends. I like him a lot and I know that he likes me a lot too. But I feel like I'm always looking and flirting with other guys. I'm kind of getting bored with our relationship I guess. What I'm asking is if I should stay in the relationship .. and if anyone has any suggestions for what I should do ? I don't want to hurt him or our friendship.
Thanks for any help !
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well I think that you kinda answered your question if your wondering if you should end the relationship thats saying you should.if you don't want to. tell him your getting bored that ya'll need to do more stuff to get the spark back.and if you really like your boyfriend you'll stop flirting with other guys,but you know why your flirting with other guys because he's not satisfing you enough so if you just fix that little problem everything will be fine.just say something like this"look this is kinda hard for me to say but I feel like our relationship is not the same from when we started to go out I feel like we lost our spark,like I want you to be more affectionate.I want you to be more loving towards me"
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its normal to get bored in a relationship and feeling like you need to date other people and it wouldnt hurt to date other people just make sure your b/f knows that and try to see if there is any real reason that you shouldnt date him anymore and talk to him that always helps
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well you should sit him down and tell him taht you are getting bored wit the relationship and that maybe you guys would be better off friends. but when you say " i dont want to ruin our friendship" you have to mean it. he has to tell that in your voice you seriously stil want to be friends.
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Give him the 'I think we should just be friends' speech. I don't think you should stay in the relationship if you are getting bored.
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Well, thats happened to me before and you should go and talk to your bf and tell him you are getting bored and break up with him if it doesnt help, and tell him your sorry and he still means a lot to you but that it wasnt working out. Good Luck
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If your getting bored with the relationship, you should break it off. Just tell him before things get too serious you just want to be friends like you were before. He should understand. Good luck hope i helped.
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Mm, try and see how he feels about things. If he's getting bored as well, then break it off, if not, maybe you should hold back. If he's still interested in you, maybe try making the relationship more fun so you're interested in him more. If this doesn't work, and you're still finding the relationship boring, just till him gently that you want to break up. That way his feelings won't be as hurt, and you'll be happier.
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