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im 15 years old, i no im not old enough to have sex yet, but if the opprotunity comes i have a question...im really worried, im not big enough to wear a tampon. and its been that way ever since i started my peroid. i flirt with guys a lot, and i want to do more then just flirtin somtimes, but im afaird, that if i start doing more than just flirtin suck as fingering or actually sex that it will hurt me a lot, bcuz im not big enough.. i was wondering if maybe someone could tell me if it would hurt bcuz im not big enough or if im just worring for no reason?! please help. thanks a lot.
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Many of my friends who have had sex tell me that for them it hurt the first time but only cause when you have sex for the first time the guy sorta ruptures the hymen ( a thin layer of tissue lining in the vagina that every girl is born with) for some girls it hurts so bad to have sex for the first time thats because the hymen is really thick where as for others the hymen is either so thin or has already been punctured that it dosent even hurt that much. any way after a woman has had sex maybe 3-4 times it dosent hurt any more unless there other medical issues. but why would you wanna have sex now you dont just have to flirt with guys. im 18 and i find just making out, and cuddleing with a guy is much better!
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the hymen is a thin piece of skin that stretches across the opening to the vagina.All girls are born with a hymen, but sometimes there is so little tissue that there may appear to be none. Little or lots, either way is perfectly normal and okay.If a woman's hymen hasn't been stretched open before she has sexual intercourse, inserting a penis or a sex toy usually stretches it (some people call it "popping the cherry"). Some girls don't feel any pain when this happens, but others do. There might even be a little bit of bleeding if the hymen wasn't stretched open before intercourse.
if your tissue is thick then it will hurt more than if you have a thin hymen because when you insert the penise it will be harder to go through the barrier if it's thicker.but everybody is different and some girls hymens are stretched open without having intercourse but by simply playing sports, horseback riding, or riding a bicycle can stretch open the hymen.but be sure if you really want to do this because loosing your virginity is a big thing well at least for me.hey somebody said to us a lube that doesn't work that can cause a rash and iritation just us a latex condom that already has lubracation and you won't catch any stds and you won't get pregnant if you us it proberly.thats what one of my teachers told me.weird huh,but she's a cool teacher.I hope I helped you go to this web site you'll learn so many things teenwire.com
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ok, you may think im bull shittin' ya, but I'm 23 years old and though that does not mean you know everything, it does mean you've had a lil bit more experience with such things so here goes...there's no such thing as "not big enough" Women can wear a tampon. If you feel like it doesn't fit properly then chances are you are not using it right. Yea having sex the first time does hurt but obviously not to bad or women would be virgins 4ever or only have sex just that 1 time lol just relax, read the "instructions manual" in the tampon box again lol and give it another shot. P.S. regardless if you use tampons or pads, it wont make a difference when the time comes for you to loose your virginity.
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well when you have sex if your acually horny or whatever i know your vagina will open up a little bit. and your hymen breaks creating more room
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Oh my God it hurts. Don't listen to anyone that says it doesn't. I am big enough to wear a tampon, and it killed!
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Losing your virginity hurts. It's just a fact of life. Some girls are lucky and it doesn't hurt for them, but for the vast majority, it hurts like a bitch. There are things you can do to ease the pain though, when the time comes, even if it's far off for you.
-Foreplay! Make sure he goes down on you. I know it seems gross to some people but it will help you relax a lot.
-Being comfortable with the guy automatically helps because you're more relaxed around him, which means your muscles aren't as tense and you won't be as tight.
-Take a couple of advil beforehand. I hear it helps a little bit.
-Use lube, but not water based because that might make the condom (which you better use!!) rip. KY is fine, vaseline is not.
Don't worry so much about it. You'll be fine. :)
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