Ok theres this boy and i really like him but theres this girl i have known since ever and she is such s butthead cause like everytime i tell her who i like she goes and starts flirting and stuff with him! it makes me so mad! and after awhile she ends up goin out with him and she goes and rubs it in my face i cant take it anymore! and this has happened with every single guy! does anyone have any ideas for me to get noticed or asked out by this guy?
Stephanieaguilar answered Monday January 2 2006, 7:47 pm: well first of all don't tell your friend that you like him cause some how she always ends up being with your crushes.well don't be as easy as your friend cause thats how she sounds to me don't be all up on him like she usually is on all your crushes.don't you know that guys want what they can't have.they like a competition.look you have something your friend doesn't have thats respect well if you don't have that you have it now j/p.just don't be like her all over guys cause to tell you the truth to much of that is annoying. [ Stephanieaguilar's advice column | Ask Stephanieaguilar A Question ]
ScratchesOnTheWall answered Monday January 2 2006, 5:30 pm: hmm ok
1) for god's sake stop telling her who you like
2) think about why you want a friendship with this bitchy girl at all
3) go and talk to the guy you like when she's not around to sabotage
4) hold out for a guy who's going to really like YOU so he's not swayed by this girl's flirting
x3ALiTTLEBiTDRAMATiC answered Monday January 2 2006, 11:42 am: bitch slap her.
=P
no just kidding.
well number one, don't tell her who you like.
if she asks be like "yeah like i'd tell you"
and don't say anything else.
as for the guy --
GO FLIRT WITH HIM!
do it do it do it!
boys tend to like girls who are flirty and fun..
so thats what you need to be
NOT SLUTTY
just .. flirty ;]
it'll be a slap in the face to her..
and rise in the dick with him ;];]
KiSSxMYxPEARLS answered Monday January 2 2006, 5:34 am: Like everyone said, stop telling who you like to her. Flirt with whatever guy you want. Be confident & try & talk to this guy whenever you can. Hang out with him whenever you can too. Don't obsess though because thats a major turn off to guys.
strictlyrouge answered Monday January 2 2006, 3:20 am: first of all, stop telling this girl who you like. if shes deliberately trying to hurt you, then screw her, she doesnt need to know who youre in to anyways. secondly, all you can do is be really smooth and confident, and dont make it look like youre *trying* to get him to notice you. if he already likes her, then forget about him and find someone cuter, smarter and funnier.
quick makeup tip that might help: lots of girls go waaaay heavy with makeup. seperate yourself from the crowd: try a pink/light red tinted gloss, very VERY little black eyeliner on the outer-bottom corner of the eyes, and a light shadow that compliments your eyes... doesnt directly relate to your problem, but it always helps to get a nice tip every now and again. [ strictlyrouge's advice column | Ask strictlyrouge A Question ]
*Kate* answered Monday January 2 2006, 3:17 am: Well for starters stop telling this girl who you like! Just go up to this guy and talk to him. Give him your sn so you can talk online if its easier. Invite him somewhere with a group of friends. Just get to know him better. And this girl sounds like someone I know and I wouldn't tell her anything important.
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