hello :)
incase any of you are wondering --
i'm a girl
i live somewhere in the united states
i am singlee
& straight.
& i have alota friends
that are probably better than yours.
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my hair is very hard to straighten..what are sum products i can use to straighten it.
thanks. i rate 5's (link)
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thermasilk shampoo makes your hair exteremly straight
blow dry your hair straight
follow up with thermasilk straightening gel
[$5-6 at drugstores]
* you might want to consider a better straightener unless yours is like, new.
conair with turbo-heat is REALLY good for "fluffy" hair.
lol
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does anyone know any websites that have teen diets or eating plans? i want to lose some wieght, but i need some type of guidline.
15/f
thanks
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www.am-i-fat.com
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i need to lose 10 pounds! im 15, female, and i weigh 121. please dont tell me i need to lose it, i do for something important! what are some things i can do without pills or anything like that? thanks, i rate well. xo (link)
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k well.
i would like to tell you that you don't need to lose it but whatever. =P
eat celery & drink cranberry juice in place of lunch.
joggings REALLY good excercise.
eat only 1,000-1,500 calories a day.
kk ?
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please just don't hurt yourself
good luckk
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im 16 and trying to buy my own phone... what plans/services are the best AND cheapest(from your knowledge) I want it to include about 1000mins + unlimited texting...thanks!!
*sprint
*tmobile
*cingular...etc...
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TMOBiLE iS THE PLACE TO GOOOOOO!
WOOOOOOO
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Does anybody know where I can buy leggins? Like to wear under my skirts in the wintertime? Any kind or anything.
Thanks for helping.
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t-t-t-taaaaaaaaaarrrrrrgggggeeeeet!
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[thebestereststoreeverrrr!]
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I know alot of kids don't like their step parents but my step dad takes it to another level.
My younger sister (15) and I (17/f) have never liked him and he doesn't like us either. My mom knows that we don't like him but she thinks that he trys his hardest with us.
Well, I know what you're thinking, give him a break and you'll see that he really is trying.
I don't think so.
Last night my mom and him threw a party and my sister and I had to be there. When everyone was leaving around 3am, my mom had gone outside to say bye to everyone while my step dad, sister, and I stayed inside.
My sister and I were talking to each other about these guys we had met that night (my mom's friend’s sons). He was listening to our conversation and said, out of no where, "I don't know what boys would be interested in you two." He always says this stuff so I just told him to shut up and mind is own conversations (I know, disrespectful but it's hard to respect him).
We got into a little argument and he then told us how immature, bratty, spoiled, we are and how we think we're princesses. Jokingly, my sister told him that we were princesses, in our dad's eyes anyways. I guess that got him mad because then he went off talking about my dad and how he's the problem because he gives us what we want. He then said that if we didn't believe everything he was saying about us that we should ask our mom and grandparents on what they think about us.
After all of that, he told us about all this stuff that my dad did while he was still married to my mom like how he once slept with a hooker and how he was always at work and never home. Alot of unnecessary things that we didn't need to know and probably shouldn't have known, specially my sister.
I knew that my parents had troubles and things like that, why else would they have gotten a divorce? But who is he to tell us exactly what happened and what my dad did. I mean does he seriously think that we would turn against our dad or end up hating him or something? Or is he just jealous of him?
Like I said, I know my dad did some things (now I know exactly what) but so did my mom. But we still love him and he's great to us and is a good parent too.
After he went to sleep I went into my sister's room to get something from her and she had cried herself to sleep. When I saw that, I went to talk to my mom about what had happened because I usually just blow it off. When I told her, she didn't believe me about the names he called us and how he told us that she and my grandparents thought the same! And all she did about the part about my dad was say, "Well, at least you know the truth about your father now." She just talked about how we never once tried to be nice to him and he was trying his best. She didn't even care about the stuff he said about us or my dad.
We were nice to him before when him and my mom first started dating but he was still mean to us back then so we started being mean back. he always used to talk about my dad too.
I don't know what to do because it seems like no matter what she's always on his side. Plus he has no right talking about my mom and dad's relationship.
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awe hun .. i'm sorry. i feel for yah --
well.. here are some things you can do.
1- ignore your stepdad. & when he or your mom question you about it, just say "i'm not at liberty to talk to you[him]. You[he] offended me in ways that [you wouldn't believe] hurt me real bad."
2- tell your real dad. tell him you know what he did was bad, but you he's the best father anyone could ask for [if he is]
3- ask your grandparents. just be like "my step dad told me and my sister you think we're spoiled little brats .. do you?" that will piss your grandparents off, i'm sure. then they'll tell your mom & possibly yell at your stepdad.
just don't let it bother you, your mom will come around.
& the first time he abuses you, your sister, or your mom..call the abuse hot line. he's mean.
scum
well with that said, i wish you good luck
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hey umm my cuzin wants to know shes 11 turning 12 next onth how much is the maximum of normal wieght (link)
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um it depends on her height.
heres a weight chart for yah --
Height
4'09" 90-118
4'10" 92-121
4'11" 95-124
5'00" 98-127
5'01" 101-130
5'02" 104-134
5'03" 107-138
5'04" 110-142
5'05" 114-146
5'06" 118-150
5'07" 122-154
5'08" 126-159
5'09" 130-164
5'10" 133-169
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ok so today my freind showed up i school with this gorgeous sweater on... however it was sooooo tight on her... it looked bad on her and she looked liek a slu*. (sry) and so like she wears a cami under it(it was a v-neck) but the v nexk litterally comes around her breasts. and it makes her boobs look huge. she gets medium adn not to be rude but she's fat and I get smalls and im pretty skinny. she always dresses like this and i hear people talking about it. how can i tell her she is dressing inapropriately? she's my BF and i want her to be known as lovely. (link)
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just casually bring it up
be like
"omg ..so my one cousin [even if you don't have a cousin] was wearing this sweater the other day, and shes HUGE and it made her look like a SLUT! i can't stand it when people do that. i feel bad though." [she'll get the hint]
or, next time you guys go shopping together -
buy something thats instyle
but would look nice on her
long shirts & sweaters are getting to be instyle
;)
hope that helped ♥
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I've got some fat on my stomach and inner thighs. What are some specific exercises that I can do to get rid of the fat? Thanks! I rate high! (link)
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jogging for thighs,
situps are good for your stomach
also this will help-
sit on the floor with your legs straight out.
tilt your back backwards until it is at a straining position
twist your upper body from side to side until you
'feel the burn'
do that for 10 minutes everyday
it works!! ♥
good luck
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what exactly does it mean to be friends with benefits? like what is different about it than being b/f and g/f? thanks (link)
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your just friends.
you aren't 'together'
you just ..makeout & have sex & stuff.
just 'as friends' though.
yeah i don't exactly get it either.
lol
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Okay I have this freind and she is so pretty
all the boys hit on her but when they hit on her they dont notice me I fill, Ugly or left out
I dont know if I am or not like for instance:
We were out @ the mall and this guy came close to her and winked and just look at me like what the He** you looking at or something like that I have no clue what to do
sorry its so long
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tell your friend.
just be like "i feel so ugly around you .. "
and then maybe she'll give you makeup tips or something ..
.. if you guys are close friends .. she might even throw some guys your way ;]
i hope that helped!
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Okay, I like this guy, and he plays on my brother's hockey team. I think he's TOTALLY hott but he's a year younger than me. He's 12 and I'm 13. But I really like him and stuff.. We've stayed at hotels together for tourneys and stuff... and we've done crap. But idk if he feels the same way about me as I do about him. Please help! (link)
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ask him .. :)
just be like "well do you like me? 'cusz i think i might like you ..."
what kind of crap?
if you guys have had sex. . i would DEFINETLY ask him that.
if he says no, he doesn't like you like that.
then i wouldn't have sex with him anymore.
if you guys were just making out then maybe it was 'just a fling', still, if it feels uncomfterable - don't do it.
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So now that me and my boyfriend are broken up, I'm wondering, when I should start to ease into flirting again? I dont want to immeadiatly jump into it since it's shallow and I know I should wait. Plus can anyone name interesting places to meet new guys? (Besides the mall, I dont get to go there often) Thanks & I'll rate. (link)
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it depends ;
how long have you guys been broken up for?
1 week - 2 weeks is too early [if you've been going out long]
2-3 1/2 weeks might still be a little early.
i say wait 3-4 weeks if you were truly in love & you guys went out for a long time [2-4 months maybe?]
good luck!
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okay i feel realli depressed right now i guess you can put it. well i was on my myspace and i was looking at my friends pictures and came to my ex's picture and i dont no its just i think i still like him but i have a bf now and i dont realli love him but he says he loves me all the time and i just say it back not to hurt him but im not sure what to do anymore i no 4 a fact my ex doesnt like me anymore and never will angain we went out like 3 times already idk i just dont no what to do anymore ive been trying to deal with it but i cant :( can anyone help?
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that same thing happens to me.
it means that you truly love with all your heart
and you never really stopped loving your ex.
its going to be hard, i know.
but in time, you eventually forget about him.
if there was a short period of time between your current boyfriend & your ex, its even harder.
this is what you do -
look at the pictures until you cry.
just let it all out.
let go of the memories .. throw away
all ticket stubs, pictures of you two,
notes, articles of clothing from him ..
and make new memories with your current boyfriend.
take more pictures.
see more movies & save the ticket stubs
save the notes ..
the lipgloss you had on when you first madeout
everything.
soon- the words "i love you"
will just come out.
yeah, your ex probably doesn't like you.
you probably don't like your ex.
its not him your in love with, its probably
just the memories.
so cut all ties, and make new ones with your current boyfriend
soon you'll realize -
that your new memories
are so much better than the old ones
i seriously hope that helped
&
good luck ♥
[sorry if its sorta long!]
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okay i am 14/f in case it matters
okay well you see, my cousins from arizona came up for christmas and new years to visit us. one is 16 and the other is 22. well they came up and they were staying at my grandmas hosue. well i wanted to hang out with them so i figured id spend the night (by the way both of my cousins are guys). anyways so i got there and my grandparents werent there. my cousins said that they went to dinner 2 hours away at some really fancy returaunt. well, they took me upstairs and they told me to sit ont the bed. they started kissing me and slowy putting their hands down my pants and up my shirt. since i had never had a real boyfriend befor they told me that they were only showing me what to expect when i had one. so thye kept doing all this stuff to me and made me do some weird stuff to them and practically forced me to have sex with them.
i know its wrong and that i should tell someone one but what wiill people say when i tell them i had sex with my cousins? please help me idont know what to do =(
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you were sexually harassed.
tell someone in your family,
trust me, it'll be for the better
that should not happen to ANY girl.
don't tell them you had sex with your cousins-
tell them you were RAPED by your cousins.
they'll see who the sickos really are easily.
tell your mom. your aunt. [sometimes its easier to tell a female]
and if you can't do that, tell a teacher or guidence counseler.
i hope that helped.
good luck .. i hope everything turns out okay
God Bless you ♥
[props to yah - it took ALOT of bravery to come here and say this]
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I am 14/f and i am 5'6'' and i weigh around 160 lb
(my scale isnt accurate...)
but people ALWAYS mistake me for around 140 pound
and i know i am fat...ohh harsh me.. i mea overweight. but i do try to lose weight.
i exercise regularly. every monday wednesday and friday (it was on health magz that its not good for you if you exercise everyday when you get older) anyways so i lost 10 pounds around already yes i know i was even fat loser then.
and i dont eat alot, although i snack sometime like eating desert like little bit of ice cream but not a lot.
so what is normal for my height and weight and my age? and how can i get my self to stay exercising?
because during those times i been quiting in and out and technically i only exercised for a month
or 2. so its pretty good losing 10 lb in those month because i dont want saggy skin...talk about ew. no offense... to people who do have those ...
anyways and i am thick in the leg. and arm... and i cant do lifting dumbels anymore because i kinda got hurt from that...
so how do i get my legs to be slender?
and keep on track and any tips on losing weight faster?
please i need help ! i havent had a boyfriend ever! i know people say its not about what's on the outside becaue then its not true love or stuff but i really want a boyfriend and i WANT to look good for him (well future bf ) and i want to feel better about my self...
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5'06" :
small frame;118-127
medium frame;124-139
large frame; 133-150
slender legs - jogging for 30 minutes
[helps tone legs & burns calories]
you probably have a slow metabolisim
skipping meals will slow it down even more.
drinking diet soda will also slow it down.
those are some suggestions!!
i hope i helped!
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OK, see I'm going out with this guy...and he's really really sweet and nice and everything, he's what I think every girl would want. BUT the only thing is...he's not good looking....at all I guess...he's not like the ugliest person on earth...but he's just not cute at all. And like I'm afraid people at my school will make fun of me, because you know, Blue Valley..think about it..girls here..we judge...what do I do? Do I dump the guy? or do I keep on going out with this guy and ignore everything?
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if you like him - don't dump him.
if any of the girls say anything ..
just be like
"you know what? shut up. he's sweet & nice ... and he treats me like a queen"
because
looks aren't everything.
my friend is probably the most popular girl in our school.
she's really pretty.
as for her boyfriend?
he's not attractive..
but the reason she's going out with him is because he's nice.
& sweet.
i mean ..what more could you want?
look at your boyfriend. maybe he is cute & you just don't see it .. look at his eyes..are they beautiful?
his hands, even, .. his smile..
just look at him
i'm sure you'll find something to love.
not every guy can be orlando bloom ;]
i learned that from experience!!
♥ woo i hope that helped!!
good luck!
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ok so i had the qeustion that you jus answered and i was wondering if avoiding his eyes is normal sorry i am realy realy freaked out hope you cna help i think you can (link)
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yes .. avoiding his eyes is perfectly normal.
i did the same thing ...
i seriously couldn't look at him.
still talk to him, but you can avoid his eyes if it makes you feel better.
if he asks why, tell him why. its better to be honest with him than to not be. maybe he'll understand. & tell him, you think everything would be better if you guys just kissed.
try looking into his eyes.
if you feel any emotion, tell him
& just be like "i need you so much"
its your nerves, hun :)
it'll pass as soon as your guys' lips meet!!
i seriously hope this is helping!!
:):):) ♥ good luck!
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Ok theres this boy and i really like him but theres this girl i have known since ever and she is such s butthead cause like everytime i tell her who i like she goes and starts flirting and stuff with him! it makes me so mad! and after awhile she ends up goin out with him and she goes and rubs it in my face i cant take it anymore! and this has happened with every single guy! does anyone have any ideas for me to get noticed or asked out by this guy? (link)
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bitch slap her.
=P
no just kidding.
well number one, don't tell her who you like.
if she asks be like "yeah like i'd tell you"
and don't say anything else.
as for the guy --
GO FLIRT WITH HIM!
do it do it do it!
boys tend to like girls who are flirty and fun..
so thats what you need to be
NOT SLUTTY
just .. flirty ;]
it'll be a slap in the face to her..
and rise in the dick with him ;];]
good luck ♥
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Hey. I've been friends with this girl for about 4 years now and i just can't seem to get her out of my mind. I've tried to tell her how i feel but just cant seem to get it out. I did one time and she said she didnt want to ruin our friendship, but even though i told her it wouldnt she still doesnt want to go out with me. I told her how i felt a while ago. So i figured i would give it some time and see, but now i dont kno if i should say anything or leave it alone. (link)
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tell her.
just be like
"we've been friends for so long. even if we do break up .. we'll still be friends. thats how strong our relationship is/can be"
and. if you break up with her - make sure its not because of some stupid fight & make sure that she knows you guys are still friends okay??
i hope that helped :):)
♥ x3ALiTTLEBiTDRAMATiC
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