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Wanting more
Hey. I've been friends with this girl for about 4 years now and i just can't seem to get her out of my mind. I've tried to tell her how i feel but just cant seem to get it out. I did one time and she said she didnt want to ruin our friendship, but even though i told her it wouldnt she still doesnt want to go out with me. I told her how i felt a while ago. So i figured i would give it some time and see, but now i dont kno if i should say anything or leave it alone.
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tell her.
just be like
"we've been friends for so long. even if we do break up .. we'll still be friends. thats how strong our relationship is/can be"
and. if you break up with her - make sure its not because of some stupid fight & make sure that she knows you guys are still friends okay??
i hope that helped :):)
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I would leave it as friends, cuz sooner or later she'll fall for you :p Justtt give it time. I'd rather have a friend then nothing, you knoww?
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I'd talk to her and tell her you cant let it go and that you dont want to be just friends, and if u cant get up the nerve to write a letter. Good Luck
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I know this is the last thing on your mind at the moment. But, since people should be best friends with the one they ultimately marry someday, the whole can't date because we're friends thing doesn't make sense to me.
Maybe it would be best if you tried writing down what you are feeling and give that to her. It is so much easier when you don't get sidetracked by the other persons questions and all that.
Then give it to her. Talk about it and see how she honestly feels about it.
If she worries for your friendship just let her know you will talk about how it is coming along every so many weeks and if one or the other wants out...you let them go. No hard feelings.
Everyone I know who has dated friends are still friends after breaking up. Sometimes they need a little space for a while, but they are back to being friends again before long. It can work out fine.
Good luck. :)
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It sounds like she isn't interested in you the way you want her to. Unfortunately you can't make someone like you. I think you should leave it alone. I know it is going to be hard but I know that you can do it. Think about it! Is it better to leave the situation alone with the girl you currently like and not have her like you back or pursue someone else, someone who you will have a better chance with? If you decide the second one then you will save time,friendship, and each other from heartbreak.
I hope everything works out for the best!
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