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ok so today my freind showed up i school with this gorgeous sweater on... however it was sooooo tight on her... it looked bad on her and she looked liek a slu*. (sry) and so like she wears a cami under it(it was a v-neck) but the v nexk litterally comes around her breasts. and it makes her boobs look huge. she gets medium adn not to be rude but she's fat and I get smalls and im pretty skinny. she always dresses like this and i hear people talking about it. how can i tell her she is dressing inapropriately? she's my BF and i want her to be known as lovely.
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I would definatly tell her what people are saying about her. Because if people were saying stuff about you wouldn't you want her to tell you? so kind of think of it that way! And you could also buy her something for her birthday that would fit her and make her look amazing and when she wears it you can be like i picked out just your size it looks wonderful on you! Just be nice about it because some people are so touchy! I hope i helped!
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First of all if this was my best friend I would never compare her to a "slu*". My guess is that if she dresses like that is because she likes it, try not to be so superficial. Anyway, if you do tell her be carefull she might take it the wrong way.
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well maybe she's just trying to get attention.. if you're her best friend and you are pretty and skinny, and she's fat and no offense but ugly - she might just be trying to look like you. She may also want the same attention from boys, lets face it.. if you're a small and pretty boys are gunna look more at you than at her! just bear with it for awhile.. and if she still doesn't change her habbits... you might wanna break it to her lightly what people are saying about her, hope this works out!
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just casually bring it up
be like
"omg ..so my one cousin [even if you don't have a cousin] was wearing this sweater the other day, and shes HUGE and it made her look like a SLUT! i can't stand it when people do that. i feel bad though." [she'll get the hint]
or, next time you guys go shopping together -
buy something thats instyle
but would look nice on her
long shirts & sweaters are getting to be instyle
;)
hope that helped ♥
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Well i suggest you tell her what people are saying or try to convice her to wear something else. It won't hurt her feeling anymore than if she found out that you were keeping a secret from her or if she heard what people said. She might be happy that you stopped her from embarassment!!!!!!!!!
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I think you should be honest with her.After all she is your BF and if she was a true BF then she would understand.And tell her that noone realy likes a slut.And if she dosent like the truth and she gets mad at you then she realy might not be a true BF.But dot just burst out with you dress like a slu*...Tell it to her in a nice but truefull way!!!
*goodluck*
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I think you should tell her in a honest way..but be nice about it, you dont want her getting mad. Whatever you do..dont tell her shes fat. lol I hate when people call me fat. Which rly i aint even close. So try not to hurt her feelings. Hope I helped =)
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yeah my Best friend has the same problem.. like she walks around with her fat hangin over her pants and ppl always come to me..
yeah. you should just tell her in a nice way.. like dont say your fat.. say your not that small and your booobs are too big to fit in that.. cuase grls dnt get mad about sayin your boobs are big or stuff..
try going shoppin with her and just say the medium looks a bit small try gettin a large.. that always works.. and then have her try it on.. if her stomach is hangin out say it doesnt cover your stomach.. cause sometimes you dont relize it.. so yeah
i hope i helped
linds
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I would suggest being honest with her (but NOT brutally honest in a cruel way!). Just tell her that the sweater isn't the most flattering thing she could wear and suggest something that would compliment her body. Be as supportive and helpful and as kind as possible! :)
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first of all, stop calling her names. if shes your friend, you want to be supportive, not abrasive. second of all, go shopping with her sometime and pick out stuff that DOES look good on her. thirdly, it sounds like you're jealous. take a look at yourself and see if it's her that looks bad, or if its you that WANTS her to look bad. finally, be supportive of her wardrobe decisions. if you hear other people talking about her in a bad way, stick up for her. its tough, but be strong, it sounds like she needs a friend.
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If your friend likes the way she's dressing, there's really nothing you can do about it. I agree with whoever posted before me when they said that she might be dressing like this to make herself feel better. You could try taking her shopping one day and try to politely point out that some of the things she's picking out would look better on her if they weren't so small. Tell her flat out that people talk about her behind her back is just going to hurt her feelings and probably make her really mad at you for being the bearer of bad news...
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Well, this is kind of an inffy situation. You don't want to hyrt your friend and she may dress the way she does to make herself feel better about her size and the way she looks.If you just bodly state your opinion she will for sure get offended. Maybe you could try making a joke about it and saying something like "Wow, okay, you're showing a lot with that shirt" That way you get the point across but are light hearted about it. You could also buy her a shirt (with the size you think is okay for her) and say "Oh, I saw this and I thought it looked like something you would wear" If she's like "Oh, that's not my size" tell her to just try it on because the size runs small. I think trying either of these or both should take care of the issue. If worse comes to worse and she doesn't pick up on it, then you may need to try having a calm, sit down, heartfelt talk to her..but I would try to steer clear from that. Good luck. If you have to, make sure to mention you are not doing it to be mean or hurtful, but rather helping her. :)
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