i have this boyfriend, and he's my first, but sometimes it feels like i see him as just a friend. i like him but i dont think i like him enough to be in a committed relationship with him. i really dont know what to do because i'm not happy about this but i also dont want to hurt his feelings
Well, if you really don't like him you should break up with him.. i meen there's no sense in leading him on if you don't really like him like that. But also make sure that if you do break up with him you do it nicely and let him know that you still want to be friends
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Well , i really like this guy in 7th grade, but the thing is I'm in 8th grade. I don't really know him that well but i really like him.
I know him well enough to like ask him out, but i dont want to yet.
I know some of my friends would give me a hard time about it but i know his friends wouldn't.
Should i ask him out or not?
I rate high for help
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>torn
Dear Torn,
If you REALLY like him don't worry about what your friends say! I know some people who have gone out with people younger than them and it's fine. Don't let your friends get to you.. as long as you know you really like him that's all that matters
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Ok so i have this really close friend she is probably my best friend. And she is like alittle pudgie but in a cute way (not fat at all!) And we try new wacky diets all the time just for fun; like eat something every three hrs. we never stick with it but its just fun. anyway so her parent kept on saying that she's not eating enough and she's throwing it up or whatever, more as like a joke not serious and she would joke it off too. but yesterday she told me that she really was throwing it up, but she siad she did research and found out you can die and whatnot she she claims to have stopped (for 3 days) and she made me promise not to tell anyone. but im so scared for her and i have no clue what to do, and the scaring part is all the signs people say to look for if someone does have an eating disortor arent there. what should i do? and i know people say you should tell someone, but it isnt as easy as it looks
This is a hard one, if she's really stopping and she's doing better I don't see the need in telling an adult. This will just start rumors if anybody finds out about it, and probably really embarras her.. BUT if she's still doing it and you notice she may start to look different or start going to the bathroom every time she eats - TELL SOMEBODY! this is veryy serious, she could get very sick or even die if she does this for too long! She also may just be trying to get attention by doing this, but even if she is you should tell somebody.. you could really help her out.
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im a girl.. and im 12 years old
okay .. well my friends are like cool and all .. but like they always exclude me in everything .. i mean .. verytime they go to the movies/mall etc. they never invite me .. i dont understand why.. i dont know if their like jealous of me .. or like hate me .. cause even my " BEST FRIEND " goes along with it .. and shes never like hey wanna include her.. and i dont know why .. and whenever i confront her shes always like no they are fine they all like you i dont know why their being like that..or shes says oh i was gunna ask them but i forgot... i dont know its just weird.. Why am i never included
Well maybe you should fine new friends. I know that may be super hard but if they're always meen to you and don't include you, then they're probably not that great of friends. Then again, have you ever thought that you may be tryin TOO HARD to fit in? Maybe if you are they don't see the real you, just the person that you're trying to be. Just be yourself and if they don't accept you for that I think you should probably consider that they may not be good friends. Hope this helps =)
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Well i have these two friends they are really popular and i get a little jellus becasue all the boys LOVE them and every1 knows them how do i get noticed
Love
wanna be popular
Don't get jealous.. if they're your friends you're probably popular too! Don't let that get you down. I'm sure boys like or as you said LOVE you too.. maybe they just don't want to admit it or aren't as open about it as the boys are to them. I guess if you really wanted to become popular, try to act like you would if you KNEW you were popular - but that would defanitely be a last resort, just keep your true friends and who cares what other people think about you.
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Is it weird that my boyfriend comments all of my friend's pictures on myspace, yet doesnt comment any of mine? Backround info : He really liked this girl last year. However, he is a great bf and we have good chemistry together.
It's not too weird.. maybe they're just friends. But i still think you should bring it up to him.. I mean hey - he is your boyfriend and should be commenting your pictures. But if you guys have great chemistry and are happy.. then you probably don't have to worry. Boys are stupid, he probably didn't even realize he was doing it
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ok so today my freind showed up i school with this gorgeous sweater on... however it was sooooo tight on her... it looked bad on her and she looked liek a slu*. (sry) and so like she wears a cami under it(it was a v-neck) but the v nexk litterally comes around her breasts. and it makes her boobs look huge. she gets medium adn not to be rude but she's fat and I get smalls and im pretty skinny. she always dresses like this and i hear people talking about it. how can i tell her she is dressing inapropriately? she's my BF and i want her to be known as lovely.
well maybe she's just trying to get attention.. if you're her best friend and you are pretty and skinny, and she's fat and no offense but ugly - she might just be trying to look like you. She may also want the same attention from boys, lets face it.. if you're a small and pretty boys are gunna look more at you than at her! just bear with it for awhile.. and if she still doesn't change her habbits... you might wanna break it to her lightly what people are saying about her, hope this works out!
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