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age is nothing but a number.. right?
Well , i really like this guy in 7th grade, but the thing is I'm in 8th grade. I don't really know him that well but i really like him.
I know him well enough to like ask him out, but i dont want to yet.
I know some of my friends would give me a hard time about it but i know his friends wouldn't.
Should i ask him out or not?
I rate high for help
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>torn<
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Dear Torn,
If you REALLY like him don't worry about what your friends say! I know some people who have gone out with people younger than them and it's fine. Don't let your friends get to you.. as long as you know you really like him that's all that matters <33
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yeah, go for it, why not?
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Fuck your friends. Theyre are so many gorgeous popular girls going out with younger hot guys, and their is NOTHING wrong with it.
Hell yea ask him out
Alicia
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You're right, age is nothing but a number. Think about it. If you did everything your friends wanted you to do, you wouldn't be -you-. It's YOUR life and you make your own choices and decisions. Who cares if it doesn't please anyone else? Do what you want. If you want to be with this boy, then go for it. If not, then don't.
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yes.
if you really like him ...
and you think its going to work out ..
then yes.
i went through the same thing -
[going out with boys a year younger than me]
& friends gave me shit for it
but i just told them
"look. he's sweet. & i like him. its not my fault you don't have a boyfriend/you and your boyfriend don't love each other like we do [pick either one depending on the situation] so listen, back off. okay?"
and if it doesn't work out & you two end up breaking up .. your friends might say "i told you so"
and this is what you say to that
"okay, so i tried it out & it didn't work. at least i'm open to my options."
does that help? i hope so!! :)
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You shouldn't pay any attention as to what negative doubts your friends have to say about your relashionship with him. If you like him, then go for it. Your friends don't think for you, you do. Who cares if they don't approve of it. You are an independent person, and you can't let them make dicisions for you. I hope I helped!
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well i wouldn't listen to your friends so do whatever you feel is right if you truely like him then ask him out it's worth a shot and well if he says no well at least you tryed and trying is better then not trying at all and just sitting and doing nothing about the situation also if he says no there are plenty of other fish in the sea lol i would sit down and think should i ask him out or shouldn't i? and then go on from there and come up with your decison.
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if you like him go for it! what if he is the man of your dreams. its not like your are going to see half of your friends after highschool anyways. do it!
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Life's too short to care what other people think. I know that your friend's opinions probably mean a lot to you but you have to do what you feel id right for you. If you like the guy ask him out.
Hope everything works out!
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It's only one year, don't worry about it. Plus, if your friends give you a hard time about it, then you'll see how much a friend they really are.
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Ask him out. You're only one year older than him. Start by just asking to hang out then make it something more. And if your friends give you a hard time abut it get some new friends because thesefriends aren't good.
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usually, its hard when your friends wont stop nagging you about it, but you should go for it anyways. you shouldnt not go out with him just because of what your friends want. they shouldnt be trying to make your decisions for you. good luck =)
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yea deffanitly ask him out what do you have to lose! you dont have to right away try talking to him alittle more whenever you get the chance then when you sre confident enough you should ask him out! good luck! xoxo
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just ask him to the movies or something. i doubt he will turn you down. but if you cant do that so suddenly, just try to hang out with him more. get to know one of his friends and then you would be one step closer to him.
if you have a myspace or xanga or something, add him or talk to him. he'll evantually want to meet you and hang out.
GO FOR IT!! =P
<33
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first of all, one grade isnt that big of an age difference. secondly, if your frends give you a hard time about who youre going out with, screw them they arent really freinds. i say go for it! good luck!
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