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Love of goodness.
Im 12 && Female.
My boy friend is 13. Me and Him have been dating for 2 years. We've had the best relationship ever. He doesnt get Jealous easily, I dont either. We buy gifts all the time, and Hang out alot. We "study" together. We've only gone as far as making out.. But a few days ago on the phone, he said he wanted to go a step further, but I told him, Im too young && not ready for that. He told me, if i wanted to be with him any longer I'd do it. Then i hung the phone up on him. i dont want to do it. Im not going to, But i feel so empty inside, Its crazy. I never heard him talk to me like that. We havent talked for 2 days. I dont know if i should call him, Im scard to call.
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well why should you go out with him if he wants to be controlling like that. dont call him until he apologizes to you!
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wow this is a crazy situatuion. a part of me thinks he is totally wrong but then again maybe he is just moving faster then you and your both right. but if your not ready then definitly dont make him force you into anyhing you dont want to do. let me kno how it works out. thanks
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If you're not ready to go a step further with your boyfriend, you shouldn't feel like you're obligated to. Don't be afraid to call him. Just call him up and tell him that you aren't comfortable with what he wants you to do. If he really loves you, he'll understand that. And if he says something to the effect of "well a good girlfriend would..", or whatever, you'll know that you'll be better off without him. If you're not comfortable with the idea, DON'T DO IT. Don't let yourself feel obligated. Because you aren't.
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Call him and tell him your sorry. But don't let him pressure you to do it. If you don't want to go any further thats fine and it should be fine to your boyfriend too. I mean how far does he want you to go your only 12. You aren't ready and you need to tell him that. Just tell him, I really don't want to do that. I'm not ready yet. And say if you love me you won't pressure me do something I don't want to do.
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I seriously respect you. Being 12 years old, I think it's awesome that you can stand up for yourself. You seem so mature for your age, you're so lucky to be able to say no to a boyfriend, because some girls can't do that! If he can't respect your decision, then there's no reason to be with him. Just let him finish the relationship. He'll realize that he's the biggest dumbass ever!! =]
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if you dont want to go any further with him, you dont have to. call him, and say your sorry about the little fight, but that doesnt change your opinion whatsoever. tell him that if he loves you, he'll respect your wishes, and he'll wait for you to be ready, no matter how far away that'll be. you dont have to do what he wants, just because he cant wait for you. thats not fair to you at all. i also have to say, i've never heard of someone whos on 12 years old, and has been going out with her boyfriend for two years. good for you. and good luck =)
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no don't because you need to decide what you want. you can't do something you don't want to because you don't want to regret it. you're too young & so is he. call him & tell him that if he cared about you enough, you guys can stay together & not go 'sexually' further in the relationship. if he cares about you enough he'll agree & it'll be fine. if he tells you that he still wants to go further & won't listen then juss dump him because if he truly cared he wouldn't do that to you.
-hope that helped!♥
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