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Okay well my boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 month now. Well we're not very close and there are certain things i want him to do but i dont know how to tell him. Everyone says i should just tell him or whatever, but i dont want to. And i can't really hint at him because hes kind of oblivious sometimes lol. And im like not in his profile and when he signs on or i sign on im always the one to IM him. What should i do? How do i get the word across to him of what i want him to do? I just want him to you know hug me and you know...lol just be close with me. Yeah i know that sounds retarded. So I'll rate really high for good answers thanks soo much for your help ♥
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I had the same problem with my ex-boyfriend. i was never in his profile. So one day I was like "I love how you're in my profile, but you don't even mention my name in your profile" and he put me in there. lol, And as far as him IMing you first..Just be like "Why do i always have to im you first?" or one day..Just don't IM him the whole time you or him signs on. Wait for him to IM you. By then, he should get the hint. But who knows..Guys are crazy sometimes.
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you know what this is all ok SAME EXACT thing happend to me and me and my bf have been goign out for 2 months and he just made all the moves on me last night i now it is very very scary soemtiems ppl just get tired of waiting and make the move so if you are both sittign down scoot realy close to him to hint even if he doesnt get it u get a little bit of what you want adn also when you want to hug him suprise him with it and just go for it there is no reason he would freak if you gave him a hug hope i helped tell me how it goes
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hey that doesnt sound retarded at all..everyone has their own pace..his is just a little slower thats all. i think thats a lot better than having a pushy bf , you know? so try things like you take the initiative and go for a hug goodbye or somethn. hes getting into things slowly..its ok! your his gf..you wouldnt be his gf if he didnt care about you. try litle things like that..keep me updated k?
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hey sweetie. well i have beeen through this stage in my life before with a guy. i thought he didnt like me and didnt care for me. are you his first girlfriend? because maybe thats why maybe he is scared. if not then maybe he just doesnt want to jump into things so fast. because he doesnt want to loose you. && if u want him to come and be more open and cuddle more and shit then i think you should talk to him about it. to make a relationship work u MUST communicate so just try askin him why he isnt so affectionitce to you. tell me how it goes. hope it helped you out. much love kady
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Tell him how you feel. Say we've been together for a month now and I think we need to be closer. Put I love his name in your profile and tell him that you love him. And maybe he'll get the hint.
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pff that doesn't sound retarded. everyone wants that. i think you should tell him all of this so he gets the hint & that way he can do what you want him to without looking stupid haha =) he shouldn't have a problem with it & if he does then dump him & find someone else because he is your bf & yeah.
-hope that helped!♥
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well, you certainly should talk to him. it seems as if he acts like he doesnt even know you. nevermind, your his girlfriend. talk to him and see what he says. if he just blows it off and ignores you, then he really isnt worth it. good luck.
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