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I need help
Okay I have this freind and she is so pretty
all the boys hit on her but when they hit on her they dont notice me I fill, Ugly or left out
I dont know if I am or not like for instance:
We were out @ the mall and this guy came close to her and winked and just look at me like what the He** you looking at or something like that I have no clue what to do
sorry its so long
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Aw. First off, I sorta know how you feel. I have a lot of really pretty friends and I used to feel like the Ugly Duckling a lot. But I took a deep long look at myself in the mirror. Normally, I would pick out the bad stuff about me. But then, I picked all the parts I liked about myself. I had found that the good things outweighed the bad. And I had found a new confident me. So do that, and keep doing that for a few weeks. Soon you'll look in the mirror with a smile, because the good things about you will stand out. Soon you will be more confident and wont feel like the Ugly Duckling. (By the way, those guys are just looking for eye candy/ a play toy, so they arent worth it.)
I know what your thinking. 'But I don't know any good things about myself' I thought the same thing when I first tried this. But.. you will. Trust me.
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The weird thing is that I was just talking to my mom about this the other day. She had the exact same problem growing up. The thing was that she was ALWAYS with her friend. She didn't realize how beautiful she really was because she constantly compared herself to this girl. You ARE beautiful, you just don't know it. Try not to compare yourself with her. Imagine that she is a plum blossom and you are a hummingbird. You just can't compare those two things; they are completely different. But they are both equally beautiful. Once, a guy tried to pick up my mom. My mother asked, "Why me, when she's right here?" The guy said that he wouldn't have a chance with her. That was a really dumb thing for him to say, and obviously he didn't get any that night. However, she asked this same question of another man who expressed interest in her. His answer was, "She's too skinny for me!" That man ended up being my father. Don't let it get to you--guys that give you those looks like you're not worth their time? Those guys are SCUM. You don't WANT guys like that. They're the type that only like you for your body and trust me they are trouble. If you think it's best, maybe you should go out by yourself once in a while. People will notice that the hummingbird is even lovlier when it's not next to the plum blossom. You can do this without ruining your friendship--my mom and that girl are still best friends.
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tell your friend.
just be like "i feel so ugly around you .. "
and then maybe she'll give you makeup tips or something ..
.. if you guys are close friends .. she might even throw some guys your way ;]
i hope that helped!
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ugh i hate when that happens..it really sucks! because ive been through this before..i would just be like awe screw it!! i wouldnt feel bad at all hun..maybe do something nice for yourself..like if you know your going out and are gonna see alot of hotties then wear something cute/sexy do your hair and makeup nice switch things up a bit!! be yourself ..thats all you can do! just be outgoing and fun..personality is what counts babydoll..even though some jerks go on looks..but then you dont need them!! if you need anything im always here!!
♥ Kristen
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aw.. that sucks.. maybe you should ask her to give you a makeover.. but dont wear a lot of makeup cause then it just looks like your tryi nto cover up something.. maybe your hair color or grose.. use natural intincts and find a color that might look good.. get some face makeup.. like powder to cover up any imperfections or anyting
hope this helped..
linds
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First step is to stop concentrating on boys. Now look at yourself, and ask if you like what you see. If you dont, then change it so you DO like what you see.
Second step, whether you decide to change yourself or not, boost your confidence a bit. Be happy and smile. Wear clothes, makeup and hairstyles that suit who you are and what image you want to put forth to the world.
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Ask your friend to give you a makeover. Go shopping with her and maybe she could help you buy some new clothes, makeup, acceseries, etc. Try stuff that you wouldnt normally buy but you see other people wearing. I used to be afraid to buy certain clothes that looked good on me because I was afraid people would comment on what a change it was, but its so much better. Im sure your very pretty though. Sorry Im not much more of a help!
Ashley♥
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♥ Awe babe. I'm sorry. Don't get down on yourself. Maybe if you really wanna do something about it start wearing make-up [if you don't already] and if you already do change it up a little bit. You know, anything. Be creative ;)
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