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ive been dating my boyfriend for a long time now, a year and a half almost and he still makes excuses to his friends. his friends say he hangs out w/ me too much. when im over and a friend calls, he wont tell them im over. his friends will invite him over and ill be at his house and he will say "let me ask" and he will put the phone down and wait then pick it up and say hes not allowed, he wont ask cuz im over. why doesnt he just tell his friends that hes with me? why does he have to hide it? he is really good at telling lies.... but i KNOW he doesnt lie to me.
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Listen, if a guy is good at lying to his own friends, then he could lie to you too. My current bf is a MAJOR pathological liar. It's a pain in the ass to say the least. I'm not saying he lies to you, but if he lies to his friends all the time, then he could easily lie to you. Now back to the main question: he probably lies to his friends because of what they said to him about always hanging out with you. He doesn't want to appear "pussy-whipped" to all his friends and get made fun of and get shit for it. He can't just be like, "Yea bro.. I'm with my girl and if you don't like it you can get over it!" His friends will be pissed at him either way, because he is choosing you over them. I had the same issue with my bf. He would lie to his friends so that they wouldn't think he was pussy whipped by me. Now he just doesn't care anymore, since I had a talk with him about it. But I also think it might be a good idea for him to hang with his friends a little more, so he doesn't lose contact with them. His world shouldn't always revolve around you. Space can be a good thing. So talk with him about why he does that and let him know that if he wants to hang with his friends once in a while it's fine. Guys like to have guy's night out, like girl's do. So give him that and let him know his lying needs to stop. Just don't be too hard on him. Hope I helped. Need anymore advice feel free to note my inbox.
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well he's probably embaressed because he thinks his homeboys will rag on him cause he's always with you.it's ok I guess if he did that once in a while but not all the time.I would understand it if he did it once in a while.but talk to him let him know how your feeling about that.when he does that again stop him right then and there and tell him why are you lieing to your friends when your with me.are you embarresed to be with me or what I want to know.ask him something like that.well I hope I helped you at least just a little
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Maybe you should communicate with him. (communication is the key) Talk to him and ask him whats up.:)
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im not sure why guys due alot of the thing that they do!but i had the same problem with my last boyfriend!if his friends dont like you then they mite bug him about spending all this time with you and guys hate to be bugged by their friends!and its good that he is not lieing to you but i meen if he is lieing to his closest friends in time he mite lie to you!(just saying)!but maybe you should talk to him and tell him that you feel like he is ashamed to hang out with you!and explain how you feel!if he really loves you he will find away to make you and his friends happy!
hope i helped
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