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Ok here is the thing.. this guy at my school likes me right.. but i dont like him. he kept askin me out and i kept sayin no so the other day he wrote me this note and it said i really like u so do u wanna go out with me if u say no i will leave u alone .. and i felt really bad for him cuz he sounded sooo sad so i said yes.. but he keeps callin me and i keep giving him excuses that i cant talk on th phone. . but yesterday he called me and his friend started talkin to me and sakin me questions about him like if i love him or not and i said i dont know then they both got mad at me.. i really want to break up with him but dont know how to put it.. can some one PLEASE help me!
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You shouldn't have said yes in the first place because you see where that got you. You need to be upfront with him, but in a nice way. Tell him that you felt pressured into going out with him and were confused about your feelings for him. Tell him that you don't want to go out with him right now and that you want to wait awhile before you can decide if you really like him in that way. By the time he asks you again, you can tell him that you only like him as a friend. He should respect that and if he doesn't that is his problem.
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tell him that you weren't ready for the relationship that he wants, and that you're sorry but think it's best if you guys go your seperate ways... hope that helped
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tell him "Screw you, i only like to fuck gay pink bunnies"
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Ok if you don't like him then you shouldn't feel like you have to go out with him. If you want to break up with him just tell him that you don't really like him and you're really sorry.
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you should not go out with someone because you feel sorry for them..its harder to go out with someone that you dont like and dump them to hurt them even worse..than to just not go out with them at all..you save yourself much time and patience by just sayin no from the start..what you should say is this.."Listen, I made a mistake by saying yes to you. I don't want a boyfriend right now. I don't have the time. I'm sorry I hope we can be friends." And leave it at that! I hope I helped!x0Lallyp0p
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Wow, awkward. Well, I say it's better to just break up with the guy than to lead him on and then send him all these negative signals. He'll be a lot better off in the long run.
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I know exactly what your going through, it's happened to me before 2. You have to let him know though, you can't let him start getting "attached" to you under false pretenses. I know that you might feel bad about doing it but it has to be done. If you don't he could turn into like some kind of stalker or something, and that's not good.
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Oh hunny.. you gotta kick his tail to the curb. Look.. just forget the hard feelings & say look, You are driving me CRAZY & I thought I liked you but you turned out different than I thought you were. You can't be really hard on him cuz then he'll be hurt & mad & you look like Wicked Heartbreaker of the West. I mean.. be straight-forward but don't hurt his feeling by saying it was a pity date cuz that will only make matters worse. Go with ur gut & you'll figure something out!
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