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what should i do???
i dont know what to do.. ive told this guy that i love him.. and he told me that he loves me back.. but now its like he got a girlfriend when he was drunk.. and i dont know what to do.. i mean he broke up with her already.. but how do i know that he didnt just go out with her cause he still likes her.. i dont want to talk to him about it.. cause i dont want him to be all weird with me.. i havent been talking to him very much.. and he sees me with other guys.. and he thinks im going out with someone.. but i told him that im not.. but maybe he doesnt believe me.. and thats why hes being all weird.. but i dont know what to do.. should i talk to him.. tell him whats going on.. tell him what i feel.. or just let him wait to talk to me.. and what if he doesnt believe me.. what should i do??
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I think you should definately tell him what going on. if you don't then he's going to keep thinking that your cheating on him or whatever. this way he knows why your not talking to him as much and he'll be able to reasure you that he loves you and everything can go back to normal.
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yes, as others have said, when dealing with guys, its best to be as blunt as possible. we really don't get subtle hints, or even obvious hints, we just need to be told straight out.
however, i wouldnt be saying to him that you love him, i would just be going slow and ask him to like just date you for a while. tell him you think that you two would be good together and that you would like to go out with him sometime. he might just be acting wierd because you have come out and told him you love him, which is not a bad thing, and although he has said he loves you too, i might just be a bit early for him to be really commiting to it.
so just take it slow, but be sure to let him know you are definately interested in him.
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You really need to talk to him and tell him how you feel and ask him about that girl and tell him that you are single and everything else that is going on in your life. Don't let him come to you because chances are if he does come to you it won't be about that because he won't want to bring it up. -Kayla
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