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more then friends
First of all, me and this guy have been best friends for 4 years and have hooked up once. When I first met him, he had a g/f but that only lasted a month, and now he is back with her and they have been together for 4 months. Then me and him are together, we get along so good and I really like him. I think he feels the same way about me too because of how he looks at me at times and how when he talks to me and gentely rest his hand on my when he talks. Its burning me up inside because of how I feel about him and he has a g/f. I wanted your advice whether I should tell him how I feel. But I'm affraid that it might ruin our friendship if I do and he will feel akwared about being around me after. What should I do, just wait and see how things go with them or tell him how I feel and may lose his friendship because of it? I dunno what I should do. I think his relationship now is going pretty good and getting serious.
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I think I would continue the friendship without confessing your feelings.You don't want to scare him off.You'll still be there if he and the current gf don't make it.I'd wait.
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You should wait a week or two before talking to him about it see how things go because you could be mixing up the signs. I used to think a guy was for me when he used to rest is hand on mine and look at me right in the eyes really deeply and stuff and turns out I was very wrong.
After waiting for a bit tell him how you feel but letting him know that if he doesn't feel anything for you you still want to be friends and you don't want him to feel weird around you and let him know (even if it's not true) that you don't want to ruin his relationship with the other girl but you had to get it out of your system because it was bugging you and you had to let him know.
Best'a luck, hun.
♥Em
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ok well let me tell you that i know all about what you are going thru becuz i was just in a situation like this ok me and this guy named tony were friends and we were like best friends and i had found out that he liked me well i felt the same way about him so then we started going out and we were going very well but then we hit a very big bump when he cheated on me wit my best friend and i dumped him but being in love i took him back then now i just broke up wit him for good and idk if we are still friends becuz he says he still loves me and he wants me back but idk whats gonna happen so just do what your heart feels like doing and tell him i am pretty sure he feels the same way about you so go for it girl peace out
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ok that is exactly like me and my bestfriend ster. we have been best friends for a year now. we have gone out two or three times, and at times i think he likes me. but he has had some on and off relationships. it was hard for me to face it and i did but i told him my feelings for him. now if he was truly your best friend nothing would change between you two. trust me about this one.
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Well since you said his relationship right now is pretty serious, I say wait it out. Relationships dont last forever especially when your in your teen age years. Your time will come to express your feelings about him, but for now date other people.
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