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My Friend


Question Posted Thursday December 2 2004, 4:41 pm

My friend always cuts himself on his wrists and throat n evrything.. i always try talking to him and he say's he'll stop.. but he keeps doing it and cutting himself more. I don't know what els to do..if he has nobody to talk to he might kill himself..but what can i say that he might actually listen to!?

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Miss_Megan answered Thursday December 2 2004, 9:25 pm:
You seriously need to tell some one. And you should tell him that when ever he has a problem that he can always come to you for help. I know some one who used to do stupid stuff like that for attention and maybe thats why he's doing it...maybe he jsut needs some one there for him....and maybe your that someone.

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CoKe_IzZlE answered Thursday December 2 2004, 8:59 pm:
tell him its gonna hurt him and all the other ppl that care about him.and if he DOES end up wanting to kill himself i made up a quote for that.."if you're thinking about letting go remember why you held on so long ~HoPe I HelPeD~
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~*NiCoLe*~

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PerkyPeacock answered Thursday December 2 2004, 8:18 pm:
talk to his parents or a school counselor. he may get mad at you, but his life is more important than temporary anger.

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kylie0628 answered Thursday December 2 2004, 8:10 pm:
tell a counselor

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S_C answered Thursday December 2 2004, 6:09 pm:
Tell him that if he doesn't tell somebody, then you will. Or offer to tell somebody he'll trust, and somebody he will feel comfortable talking to. Tell a teacher (I went to my favorite teacher, anonymously e-mailing her, telling her that I cut and want to stop, and asking how I might do that, she eventually found out it was me, we talk about it sometimes in class, but she even told me that the only reason she hasn't 'turned me in' is because I haven't signed my names to the e-mails. Usually if there's something where a person is considered suicidal, the teacher has to do something about it. But here's the teen talk number if you and/or your friend want to call it. 1-800-650-TALK. That should be it, if it's wrong let me know, just today my teacher gave me one of the teen talk brochure thingy's, so I'll take another look at it.

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KeLsEyS_PaGe answered Thursday December 2 2004, 4:57 pm:
talk to him. don't let go of him. ask him why he does it and tell him that if he does it, it will not only ruin his future, but his life. people may seem like they are rude and impatient, but if you just talk to him and don't let him go. i hope that this will help you! Good luck!

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SeaWorldGirl61692 answered Thursday December 2 2004, 4:57 pm:
you need to tell your parents or his!! You can't keep a secret like that, it'll just cause more stress on you, and him. Tell him if he doesn't stop, you're going to tell his parents. And you should. because if you don't a life could be lost.

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ilovehissmile answered Thursday December 2 2004, 4:54 pm:
You need to tell someone...A counsleor a doctor a teacher. Thats a serious issue and he needs help most deffinately and he may get mad at you for it but hell get over it especially when he gets help.!jus please do me a favor and dont take this lightly and tell someone FAST

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jamziix16 answered Thursday December 2 2004, 4:53 pm:
i've been in this situation before. does he want to stop? if so, you should consider telling him to go to counseling. my old best friend goes to counseling for her cutting. and it seems to be helping her. i'm sure that it would be the best thing for him!

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