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Hey, I need, some help, all the time i get this achy feeling, i never have any thing to do. it seems like all my friends are slipping away from me. My mom is all stressed out, and i can't get anyone to listen to me. My ; classes used to be easy, but now they are hard. I'm sooo confused, please, what should i do?!?!
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You need to think about one thing at a time. It's evident from your post that you're thinking about all of your problems at once and that's bound to get overwhelming. Talk to a counselor or teacher at school about time management so that your classes will be easier to handle. Also ask if there are tutors in some of the subjects you're struggling in the most. As for your other problems, try to reduce them down to a core issue. If you think: "my friends are slipping away" you're just generalizing the problem, which makes it difficult to solve. Ask yourself what is making you think that your friends are slipping away, try to pin down a specific incident or conversation that has made you feel this way recently. Think about how to deal with that incident, perhaps with that certain person, in order to reduce the problem down to manageable parts. Try to break down your frustrations into specific events and you'll find them easier to deal with. Use the same strategy in dealing with your mom.
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well if you don't have anything to do, then take that time and study. you say that your grades are getting harder and your friends are slipping away. don't let little things like that pull you down. so your mom is stressed out! don't do things to make it worse. if you come home before she does, then make dinner or clean the house. just let her know you love her and that you'll do whatever she needs you to do! good luck
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you said that your friends are slipping from you. Maybe its really you thats slipping from them. What you need to do is stop all what you are all doing and take time to sort things out. What you need to do is spend more time with your friends. If they really are slipping from you, its probably because your depressed, and noone else needs to be depressed so they leave ya. But what you should do is spend time with friends, and even talk to your mom, even though she doesnt listen it gets to her in some form and it does actually help. The classes are harder to do because of your stressed and depressed condition. You need to get happier than you are now and also you need to do things that make you happier. You need to stop being depressed, believe me once you get undepressed, everything will work out for the better. I hope i helped.
Dominic
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Hey its all apart of growing up, try to for get about all this stress try to forget it all and ease up on your self you cant worry bc that only brings more stress!
Well hope i helped blayre
Ps wish i could say more but g2g best wishes
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Life is tough..and i have to say that straight out. because from my experiences, life sucks sometimes! i've been through a lot of this stuff..and sometimes you just need to vent. find something that works for you to vent when your angry. like...scream into a pillow (i do that sometimes), listen to music, go outside and take a walk (i do that too), or...maybe u just need someone to talk to. find a friend that you really trust and can talk to that person about things. it helps just letting out everything and telling someone, because otherwise..if its just built up inside, then thats a stresser!!! well i hope i helped, good luck! :) my aim is RachBayb08
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just take a deep breath and calm down everything will be ok if you get all bent out of shape then just take it slow and everything will be fine don't get all worked up.
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