Member Since: October 3, 2004
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Last Update: November 27, 2004
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Ok this happened a while ago so im preatty much not going to be able to act on it or anything but im still curious. I met this girl at a school function and we got talking and hit it off. there was a dance that day and neither of us had a date so i asked her and she said yes. after the dance she kissed me on the cheek told me she had a great time gave me her number and told me to call her. weird thing is everytime i called her after that she was busy, this continued for about a month with me calling her about twice a week give or take. i got a little suspicious and told her that if she didnt like me she should just tell me but she said that it was jsut becasue her mom was mean and kept not letting her go out. after another month or so i got tired of it and called her up with one last cahnce i knew she wasnt going to take. i said if you cant make anytime for me in this long then i dont think we should be going out she answered with "i think your a great guy but...yadayadayada typical blow off" i really dont know waht happened she didnt seem like the type of girl that would play a guy and she didnt get anything out of me so i really dont know. lets see i was 17 then and she was 14 so i dont know if that played anything into it. any help you could give would be appreciated, and i know you probably get this in 3/4 of the questions in your colum but youre totaly hot. (link)
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ok first of all who is hot? i dont really understand what ur askin but ill do my best. i think that there is probably only two ways to explain it: either she liked you and didnt know how to show it, or she was avoiding you b/c she dodint like you and was just trying to make you fell good.i wanna know though if you actually asked her out?welll thats all i can really say untill i know specifically in details plaese rate me Tori
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sry i didnt know what category to put this under..but what really is cutting? i know you like cut urself but is it to let out anger? or do you do it to actually try to kill urself?? plz i need to know this my friend does it and im scared! (link)
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well it can be for a lot of different reasons and yes commiting suicide can be a major one. it can be caused by depression that will lead to severe depression if help is not provided.i know that you arent asking for advice but im gonna let you know what i think. i think that you should sit down and talk to your friend and try to get her help even if she dosent waNT IT. THAT CAN LEAD TO DEATH.!!!! tORI
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Whenever i straighten my hair, there's always a dent from the straightener @ the roots (where my part is). How do i get rid of the dent/prevent it? thanks i rate high!! (link)
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well straining isnt the best for your hair and i have long long brn hair so i know what ur talking about. what i did was now i iron my hair. that does sound weird but that works for me. and it aint no worse for your hair than it is with a straightner.Please rate me!Tori
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hi, im 13/m i have this gf we started going out like 2 months ago and its been really cool and i really like her alot but now i found out shes been smokin pot and drinken and shes only 13 though it was her first time it was kinda shocking cuz i expectede more from her i still like her but i sont kno if i wanna handle this i dont know what to do should i keep going out with her. (link)
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if you dont feel comfortable with her doing that then talk to her set her straight. if she dosent care and dosent listen to you then you need to get rid of her cuz she aint worth it. Please rate me Tori
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does anyone kno how 2 get glue off of ur nails? i put on fake nails 4 homecoming, and that was like, over a month ago. i wanna get it off, cuz i can't paint my nails anymore, cuz u can totally c the glue. thx. i'll rate high.
~*Erin*~ (link)
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i do that all the time usually i pick the bite the glue off. that probably sounds corny but it works 4 me plaes rate me Tori
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heres my problem. well ever since like 3 years ago, i've kinda had a thing for this guy, Chris. and we'd always flirt and talk and in class we'd have to get our seats moved bc we talked to much. and my Best Best friend ever has liked him to. but she's always rotating on who she likes. like if she likes a guy, and they dont like her, she decided to like another guy instead. well she recently started going out w/ Chris. and it was their one month yesterday and they dont even act like a couple At all. they like hug at the end of the day and thats it. they hardly Ever go Anywhere together, their basically acting like friends, not boyfriend and girlfriend. and then like last week, she started having strong feelings for this other guy. and she was gonna dump chris and everything. then she changed her mind, and wrote chris a note saying that she had feelings for another guy and it wasnt fair to him that she likes 2 guys at once, blah blah blah. and he didnt even talk to her about it! he just acted like it never even happened! i was like WTF? she had even told me that "i'm gonnna be all over *this guy* and i dont care what chris thinks or says about it" and i told chris that she said that..and he didnt really seem to care about that either? and the only reason i still have feelings for chris is b/c the way he looks at me. we always walk to 11th period together and he's constanly making me laugh. and when me him and my bestfriend are sitting their talking he'll look at me and just give me this amazing smile. i know its corny but his bright blue eyes and that smile just really get to me. and sometimes when my bestfriends not around we'll even flirt a little. i'm just really confused..i think he deserves a girl that likes him and Only him, what should i do? i want to make him see that shes not right for him, but i also dont wanna get into a fight w/ my bestfriend..thanks~* (link)
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i think if he has been ur friend for that long you need to sit and talk to him.she may be ur friend and you dont wanna choose between them but he needs to know. and if you like him you should tell him. if she has a problem with it oh well she had her chance and she treated it like s***!let her know your gonna say something just make a warning. also talk to her bout the way she is treated him.please rate me and if you need more advice holla at ur gurl!!!! Tori
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Um.. ok what is a yeast infection and how do you cure it? Im waaaaaaaaay to modest to go to the doctors about and and ill refuse to so ya help me!!!! (link)
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i think a name is vagisil im not sure but you can always go into a drugstore and go down that isle and the product will tell you. i know that they arent bad it just makes you itch constantly you dont nesicarily have to go to a doc.please rate me!!! Tori
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ok well this ?????? really isnt for me its for my best friend but anywayz. he is having REALLY BIG Trouble wid his gurl friend like i think she is prude or sumthin b/c they have been going out for 6months & they havnt hugged,kissed,made out or anything yet & like today @ da movies he tried to hold her hand & kiss her but she pulled away & leaned away from him da WHOLE! MOVIE! u no the ironiclly thing is me & my g/f r totally fine l0l we r perfect for each otha but anywayz i need some advice to help my frined b/c hes thinkin bout breaking ^ wid her this is serious please help! i'll give u a 5!
sincerely ANTHONY me & my friend r both m/13! (link)
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well i think he should talk to his gurl and ask her wats up. if she doesnt do nething maybe she hasnt b4 and is just scared that does tend to happen with gurls but in this case maybe she just dont want it. just have him talk to her and if notin works end it. prude can be a bit boring.
please rate me Tori
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Ok, me and my boyfriend had sex only twice this month, both times we used a condom and I'm not on the pill or anything. The condoms didnt break, rip or tear. But however, my period tomorrow will be a week late. I don't know if I'm just over reacting because we did have sex and I haven't gotten it yet. But theres no way poissible right if the condom didnt break for me to be pregnant is there? What should I do just siot around and wait for my period to come?
Thank you all sooo much (link)
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ok well first of all how old are you? i really dont think you are pregnant but condoms do work only 98% of the time but my period will be mested up to. like 4 months apart but im not pregnent. i dont think there is nething to wry about. Tori
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Hi. My names Kylie and this is my situation. I live with my older sister because my dad left and my mom died when I was born. I'm 13 and she’s 29. Anyways when I was 4 one of her friends was watching me while she went out and he was touching me sexually. I didn’t tell her and the next time he babysat me he did it again. He did it 4 different times that I can remember. Anyways I never told my sister about it. And they’re still really good friends today. He comes all the time so I see him a lot. And I feel really awkward around him. What I'm wondering is should I tell my sister about it? I don’t know if shed believe me and if she did I don’t know if shed do anything about it. I know its sexual abuse but can he actually get in trouble for it? Like since it happened a long time ago?
Please reply. I really don’t know what to do here.
Please email me if you think you can help.
hollisterhunni0628@yahoo.com
- Kylie (link)
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i dont think she'll lose it if you tell her. the guy will probably make it so your the lier. i was in the same exact situation with my uncle. he tried to make me seem like a lier but i was 5 then and now im 14 but you need to tell her b/c that is a crime molestation. itll be hard but if hes the same age or older than her he can go to jail. and that probably makes you really not wanna tell her. if you want to listen to my story i'm not afraid to tell you my email is DaddysShortee@aol.com you probably feel like you dont want to get him into trouble but thats how i felt. i thought my mom would hate me b/c it was her brother. it will make you both closer even with other family problems. Please rate me!and you can tell me nething! Tori
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ok thers this guy that i thought i liked but he's really pushie if u know what i mean. he freaks out if i dont tell him i love him or if he thinks i didnt mean it when i hugged him... it's really weird. i feel weird talking to him now because i don't like him anymore and he thinks i still love him. we never actually went out or anything, we just went to the park together alot and played basketball and skateboarded and talked, but nothing more. besides the one time when we were sitting on a bench we... well nevermind thats a long story. and i tried to tell him the other day i didnt want to go to the movies and he started freaking out hes like "i thought you liked me! laura is there somthing you need to tell me? we have to talk don't we? theres somthing wrong." and i can't just go up to him and say "Lou, i don't like you." because hed get so mad. i don't know what i should do. (link)
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i think you should talk to him b/c you dont wanna lead him on and lie about although to me it aint actually technically lieing b/c i am in a very simular situation. you should talk to him though and explain how you feel just let him know that your just not into him m=nomore and you drifted away. its better than hurting him and making him tink that something is there when it dissappeared a long while ago. talkingt to him is the best way to get him off your back constantly. i do junderstand though!Please rate me and ask me nething if you need it! Tori
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when you're multiplying 2 numbers with a exponent do u multiply the 2 numbers and then square that or square only the number the exponent is over and then multiply by the other number. -2(-1) with a 2 over the -1
thanx
and dont tell me to look in my text book bcuz im in algebra 1 and this is pre-algebra.. i just dont remember. (link)
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give me more detail in the actual question and ill help ya out cuz i dont understand what ur askin Tori
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Sorry this is long, but i rate high! :)
I have a friend...lets call her Jill. Well jill is really cool to hang out with...when she isnt around guys or we arent on the subject of guys. She always uses guys and she flirts with them, and leads them on all the time and then she ends up crushing them. She always steals the gusy her friends like (including the guys i like...) and we are all sick of it. I really want to tell her off because i have talked to her about it before but just talking to her wont get through to her. I want her to really realize what a slutty jerk she has turned into. because she used to be really cool. Please help! (link)
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Personally i would tell her off. I am one of those people though that if you piss me off im a kick your ass. tell her to listen here and tell her what you think of her. id also reevaluate your friendship too. but just sit her down and tell her she is fixin to get it if she dont stop. just remember its you and your friends who are tired of it against her!
Please rate me!!!!!!!!!!!!!11111111 Tori
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Ive been looking for cell phones and im trying to find a good deal on em. I want to take the phone i find and have it reprogramed to b a prepay verizon phone. Does anyone know a place where you can buy just the cell phone, not sign up for a plan...but just get the phone. Any phones under $100 would b great. (link)
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you can go to like durg stores like walmart target things like that and buy a phone usually they are like i wanna say 30$ to about 50$ depending on what phone you get.
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I have dark arm hair and I am teased about it often so I started shaving it about a year ago. But it takes too long and I have to every day and stuff and sometimes it feels weird when people touch my arms. So is there anything I can use to bleach my arm hair blonde? if you know anything around the house I can use that would be even better. Thx so much! I'll rate ya. Answer asap plz! (I'm a female) (link)
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well i can relate to you because im sicilian which is a "mean italian" and i have black hair on my ghostly white arms and let me tell you there is alot of it on me. everyone also makes fun of me because my arms are so hairy but i except my body and my backround. i love being italianfor i love my hairy arms. i recently got a cast of my arm as well making one arm hairier than the other making people make fun of me even more. i shaved it once realizing it wasent me. if you look into trying to change the color of your arm hair you could be giving the idea of not excepting yourself. so if you do that i dont think you know the sign your giving other people. so dont change the way you look just to please other people happy and stop ragging. my advice to you is dont change yourself for the likes of others.sry but its true!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
tjlover
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what do you do when you love two people and you cant pick between them (link)
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its very hard to pick between 2 people. if you love both of them you relly have to let them both go. its hard but one of the bestc ways to deal.
tjlover
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If your a virgin (( girl )) then how can you get pregnant? (link)
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ok there is only one way to get pregnent by being a virgin at least of wat i know. you have to go to the doctor and have them inject sperm into you. thats the only reasonable way i know of.
tjlover
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Sorry it's long, but it's VERY important to me.
Okay, me and a bunch of friends were at this party, and there was alcohal (i'm a freshman in high school, 13 years old.) Well anyways, my boyfriend can drive, but he decided to leave his car there(it was a friends house.) and so we decided to split the cost for a taxi ride, about 10 of us squeezed into a taxi, well my REALLY good friend, didn't seem drunk, but we offered countless times for her to ride with us, she kept saying NO, so we gave her the walk test, and she did in a strait line. So since we couldn't talk her into it, she drove home, and ended up driving off a mountain, and she died. Well I felt so bad, and guilty, and I still do. So now I'm trying to stop drinking, after what happened, I decided I better stop. Well I was wondering, I want to get over the guilt, and stop drinking. One of my teachers knows that I drink, and I was talking, with an attitude saying it's not like you can die... and the next day my friend passes away. She is the only adult that I know, but I'd feel really akward talking about it to her, and I wouldn't know how to bring it up, neither of my parents know, and I don't want to upset them, I mean I'd get my butt whooped. So does anybody have any Ideas what I can do? None of her friends besides me want to talk about it, my boyfriend will change the subject each time we bring it up. She was sort of a loner, and she didn't go to my school, niether did my bf, and I met her through him.
So if anybody has any ideas, I'm open to everything EXCEPT telling my parents, or naybers!
Thanks in advance for any help, this is VERY hard for me, so please TRY to be sympathetic. (link)
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first of all im very sry for your loss. i think you should talk to someone. you dont wanna hear this but it might not seem like a very good thing to do but your parents will be the best option. parents are actually very understanding.im not telling you you have to go to them but i think youd be real surprised on how well they will react.they might get upset on you drinking but they are the only ones who can help to stop your addiction. or your other options would be 1)rehab 2)drink less & less each time you drink.
tjlover
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ok i like this guy named jamie who is kind of a dork but he used to like me and a lot of people still thing he likes me. i used to think that he was really weird and annoying but now i figured out that i like him...a lot! anyway he is moving to Hong Kong in January so i'm not sure if i should tell him how i feel or not. he's kind of like a geek in my grade so if we were going out i would be thought of as a loser for the rest of my school life. i was thinking that i could tell him on his last day of school but then if he liked me too then i would feel really bad that i didn't tell him sooner. i'm worried that if i tell him that i like him now he'll either a. not like me and tell all of his friends or b.tell me that he does like me but then he would still tell all of his friends and i would be thought of as a loser.please help soon because i really dont know what to do!
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Dear asap-
if you like this guy let him now. although everyone else thinks hes a dork dont worry about what they think. dont tell him on his last day though because i gaurantee that you will feel terrible about it. just tell him you like him and if he likes you or not. the only way it wont bug you is if you talk to him letting him now how you feel.if he likes you hell tell you if he dont he let you know too but it wont be the end of the world, there really are more fish in the sea.
tjlover
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