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help asap plz
ok i like this guy named jamie who is kind of a dork but he used to like me and a lot of people still thing he likes me. i used to think that he was really weird and annoying but now i figured out that i like him...a lot! anyway he is moving to Hong Kong in January so i'm not sure if i should tell him how i feel or not. he's kind of like a geek in my grade so if we were going out i would be thought of as a loser for the rest of my school life. i was thinking that i could tell him on his last day of school but then if he liked me too then i would feel really bad that i didn't tell him sooner. i'm worried that if i tell him that i like him now he'll either a. not like me and tell all of his friends or b.tell me that he does like me but then he would still tell all of his friends and i would be thought of as a loser.please help soon because i really dont know what to do!
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First of all...You need to stop caring about what others are going to think of you. It's not fair to you, him and both your feelings. People at school already know you, why would they think your a loser for liking someone that's not so popular? You should tell him, it'll boost his self-esteem and instead of thinking people will say your a loser, their actually going to think your a good person because you show your true feelings. And who knows? Maybe there are a lot of guys and girls at your school who like eachother but don't do anything about it because they don't want to be a loser, so if you do it, many will fallow in your footsteps. What if he leaves without you ever knowing that he has a great personality?????? Try it.
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Definitely tell this guy! Who gives a sh*t what other people think anyways? <--Haha, Hope I helped!
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I think that you should let him know before he goes to Hong Kong because if you like him as much as you say you do you wouldn't really care what other people think. You wouldn't be thought of as a loser just because you like someone. I think that you should be different from everyone else and go for what you want and not care what everyone thinks about you! Belive me when I stopped caring what people thought about me my life got a lot less stressful because You can do what you want to do when you just don't care.
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Dear asap-
if you like this guy let him now. although everyone else thinks hes a dork dont worry about what they think. dont tell him on his last day though because i gaurantee that you will feel terrible about it. just tell him you like him and if he likes you or not. the only way it wont bug you is if you talk to him letting him now how you feel.if he likes you hell tell you if he dont he let you know too but it wont be the end of the world, there really are more fish in the sea.
tjlover
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I had pretty much the same problem, except the guy decided not to move. I really liked him and he liked me but he was considered a loser. I told him I liked him and we were gonna go out but decided not to because he was going to move. Anyway, everybody found out about it and they talked about it for like 2 days. People would come up to me and be like eww you like Chris? And I would say yes I do and I don't see why it matters so much to you I mean you must really like me if you care so much to ask me. After a little bit it got old and people didn't care anymore. Just because you like somebody who is considered a loser doesn't make you one. After a while people won't care so much anymore. I mean I know it'll be tough because people will be saying things, but it doesn't matter what people think. I would tell him that you like him a week or two before he moves that you like him and you can tell him not to tell anybody. People might find out though, so you'd have to be prepared for that and be able to ignore them if they say things or say something back. I hope I helped! Tell me how it goes! In the long run it won't matter what people thought of you in school or what people said about you.
Love, RacheL
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