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Ok next off my question list Ok so i asked you guys earlier about my bf problem....So im going out with this guy that my dad doesnt like and i feel guilty everytime im with him! its not so much fun! And i dumped this guy that my dad likes and thinks is a good guy to go out with him! Well the catch is that i still have feelings for this other guy! what do i do?
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You should do what you want to do. You got screwed over in the first place by dumping someone because of your dad. THIS IS ABOUT YOU DATING THE BOY, NOT YOUR DAD DATING THE BOY! LOL! you need to make ur own descisions and stop worrying about what other people think! ]
It's not fair to be with someone if you have feelings for another person. Go with whatever your heart is telling you to do. If you decide to break up with your bf now, to be with the other guy, make sure that he has feelings for you too. Instead of loosing both guys at once! ]
You should talk to your dad and find out why he doesnt like him. If his reasons dont seem that great then tell him why you like him. Show some responsibility but taking into consideration what your dad has to say, and maybe he'll give you an OK on going out with that guy. Dont go out with anyone if you cant go out with the one guy you like, and deff. dont go out with the guy your dad likes just because your dad likes him. If your dad wants to go out with him then so be it but you dont have to. (lol) Sorry its so long. GoOd LuCk ]
Do you like the guy you're going out with? If you don't then I would dump him. I mean if you're feeling guilty all the time then dumping him would take a lot of the weight off your shoulders. Does the other guy still have feelings for you? You might want to find that out too. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything for you! =c)
Love, RacheL ]
your dad should respect your judgement of boys! it's your life, i mean... YOU are the one going out with these boys, you most likely wont marry them, so he should at least try to be respectful of your choices of boys. some dad's just want the best for their girls, so it's really normal. just explain to him [even if it's super embarrassing] that you like him, and he would if he gave him a choice [not sure if he really would, but its worth a shot]! hope things work out =] -ask_anything ]
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