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Ok this happened a while ago so im preatty much not going to be able to act on it or anything but im still curious. I met this girl at a school function and we got talking and hit it off. there was a dance that day and neither of us had a date so i asked her and she said yes. after the dance she kissed me on the cheek told me she had a great time gave me her number and told me to call her. weird thing is everytime i called her after that she was busy, this continued for about a month with me calling her about twice a week give or take. i got a little suspicious and told her that if she didnt like me she should just tell me but she said that it was jsut becasue her mom was mean and kept not letting her go out. after another month or so i got tired of it and called her up with one last cahnce i knew she wasnt going to take. i said if you cant make anytime for me in this long then i dont think we should be going out she answered with "i think your a great guy but...yadayadayada typical blow off" i really dont know waht happened she didnt seem like the type of girl that would play a guy and she didnt get anything out of me so i really dont know. lets see i was 17 then and she was 14 so i dont know if that played anything into it. any help you could give would be appreciated, and i know you probably get this in 3/4 of the questions in your colum but youre totaly hot.
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It very well could have been that her mom didn't want her to date someone that much older than her.
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Hi Sweetie,
The age thing DOES play into it. Many parens don't approve their children going out with people older than they are. Her mom can be thinking: This guy probably knws how to drive... What if he influinces her to drink... What if he pressures her into doing somethign she's not ready for... etc. OR maybe because she's so young her mother doesn't let her go out period. (Some mom don't). I'm sure she liked you... she kissd you on the cheek and gave you her phone number. Unfortunately all you can do is hope she can talk to her mom and convicne her into letting you go out with her (although there may eb conditions) or wait until she's older or something.
I hope you two do go out and that you're both happy. My best wishes!!! ~Blessed Be...
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Okay well maybe she isn't allowed to date older guys but she didn't want to be embarassed so she didn't say anything to you about it? Either that or she found someone else, sorry if that was harsh. Some girls get so confused in what/who they want sometimes..I'd say just try not to worry about it& move on b/c you're right..it happened awhile back& you can't really act on it now. I hope I helped!
-Amber
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lol alright well shes 14 right? shes a little slut right? ok were on the same page. some chicks do that so htey can tell their friends they went out with a 17 year old. she may have not done anything but to her ur age might be the whole thing. or, she could of found another guy that shes likes more i mean u never know
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ok first of all who is hot? i dont really understand what ur askin but ill do my best. i think that there is probably only two ways to explain it: either she liked you and didnt know how to show it, or she was avoiding you b/c she dodint like you and was just trying to make you fell good.i wanna know though if you actually asked her out?welll thats all i can really say untill i know specifically in details plaese rate me Tori
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