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My ex-girlfriend and i broke up a while ago. I didn't want to break up, but we did. I thought i would be ok with it after a while, but i'm not. Every time i see her i wish we were still together. It's hard for me to hang around her or even think about her as just a friend. How can i get over her and just be her friend?
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Well, there's no other way to get over someone then time. Just give it time. You probably liked her a lot so it makes it harder to forget. But just think of it as, your getting closer to your Miss.Right =)
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You're going to have to figure that out yourself...I know this sounds like sucky advice but there's hardly any ways people can tell you to get over her...
I'm not going to lie it will probably be hard for you...but I'm sure once you allow yourself to move on everything will go smoothly..date some other girls and try to get your mind off of her..
Also, make sure you still keep in touch with yoru ex-girlfriend no matter how strong the feelings you have for her are..you shouldn't allow yourself to hold back and miss out on a great friend..
----->> PLUS, if you avoid her all because you have these feelings for her still, it will hurt much more...I know this sounds strange but being around her maybe can help you to get over her a little..ya know?..you'll realize that she's moved on and she still cares about you as a friend...
Good Luck to you...xo's
<3 Gessyka
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Maybe tell her how you feel and maybe u can have a second chance. If not i know its hard to be an ex's friend but it is way better than not having them in your life at all. Just treat her like u do everyone else, it will be just like when ur together just no physical contact.
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This is a tough question but... if u want to be comfertable while bein her friend u might have to talk this out with her a lil.tell her that breaking up to u, was a bad idea and that u cant get over u 2 breaking up. if u hate mi advice than go with what sumone else says. if not..... than.........
~Good Luck~
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im thinkin you cant get over her...if ya like her ya like her...n theres nothin u can do 2 stop it xcept if you just lose interest!! ask her back out don't be scared!! the worst she can say is no and one little no shouldn't wreck ur whole life ... i mean there r plenty of other girls out there ... if ur ment 2 b 2gether u'll b 2gether in the end!
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Just tell her how yOu feel! I mean no girl is going to get mad at yOu for not feeling rite. Tell her that yOu regret breakin upwith her and maybe she feels the same! I just got dumped last night and I think it is weird that we are sort of just friends... I wish thigs were different! Tell me if things go ok!* bye *
.:*Erika*:.
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breaking up is a process. everything in life is a process. your heart will heal in time. in the mean time maybe you shouldnt be around her alot if it really hurts that bad.
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