Ya I have this situation with this girl. Like we hung out a couple times and it was an awesome time. Like we both cuddled with each other made each other laugh and kissed. Then the last time we hung out which was 2wks ago, like i kept in touch with her always asking her to c if she wanted to do something and she says ya but when it comes down to it, she always has something else to do. This just didnt happen once but a couple of times during the 2wks. I know she doesnt mean to cuz she is always apologizing saying she is srry that she couldnt hang out and when im always online, she will always i-m first just sayin hey. Like i know she wants to c me more and she knows i have feelings for her and that i like her but i wanted to know what u guys think about this situation.. Hope u can give me some advice for this... Also she like rlly never calls me. Like i feel im always the one to call her and i hate that. Im sure some of u guys know what im talking about. lol but if u anyone has advice to give i would like to know what u think. thx -TiM-
Additional info, added Tuesday November 2 2004, 10:34 am: Well to the people that gave me advice about this whole topic, i would like to thank u but it didnt work out for me becuz she blew me off again during the last minute thing.... Said she had to clean her room on a friday night but she always says that so i dont rlly care anymore. So i havent talked to her since fri and i dont plan to anymore. Ima just wait for everythin to come to me. thx anyways.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? PerkyPeacock answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 9:43 pm: try asking her what a good time to get together would be... that way she gives you a date that works for her, and therefore will work wonderfully! [ PerkyPeacock's advice column | Ask PerkyPeacock A Question ]
TheLovex8 answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 7:23 pm: she probally likes you or just likes you as a really good friend or is just stright out playing you or playing hard to get.. but you know it sounds like me with my ex jeff and i love that kid and always will but maybe she's just really busy like me im always on the run running late on time don't even show up you know you can't have time for it all and some things just have to come first talk to her about it and see whats up! Good Luck x0x0 Kay [ TheLovex8's advice column | Ask TheLovex8 A Question ]
julia answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 5:19 pm: Well, first off I think she goes along w/ the "Guy calls the grl" dating rule. That's all I can tell you, i think.
SweetBabi answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 4:09 pm: tim.. sounds to me that yew should just go ahead and make plans ahead of tyme... then she'll have plans n hopefully wont break yall's... and sounds lyke yew 2 reallie lyke each other so dont wrry it'll work out
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xokaylanicoleox answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 3:50 pm: I'm thinking that you just need to give her some space and don't call her for a while or invite her over. Wait until she asks why you don't do either of those anymore and then when she does tell her that she doesn't seem like she wants to talk or hang out. See what she says and hopefully she will make some time for you! Hope I helped! -Kayla [ xokaylanicoleox's advice column | Ask xokaylanicoleox A Question ]
Farren answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 3:50 pm: This probably means one of four things.
One - She thought she liked you at first, but after talking more she realized she didn't, and now she doesn't want to hang out as much. Maybe she just wants to be friends.
Two - She likes to make guys call her, and she just likes the attention. If this is the case, she probably has other guys like you who lust over her.
Three - She's freaked out by your obsessive behavior. She liked you, but now all the calling and talking is just annoying her, and she wants a break.
Four - She likes you a lot, she's just been busy lately, and there's nothing more to it.
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