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Ok this is gonna be long- ish, but I hope at least a few ppl at least read it. Here goes...
Alright, the boy I like, Nick and me were like friends-ish last year. Like we would talk and joke around after classes and stuff and I was majorly crushing him. Hes adorable and funny and REALLY smart and nice and has this laid-back, sarcastic kind of sense of humor. But he hangs out with the nerds, kind of, so it felt like he was within my league.
So we come back to school this year, and he isnt in any of my classes except band, and he plays another instrument so i have no reason to talk to him or anything. I have told myself to just stop likeing him, its useless, etc. But I CANT STOP! I havent spoken a word to him since last year, but I cant get him off my mind. I am pretty sure he knows i like him, since i check him out alot (:-D)and he catches me. BUt I figure if he hasnt done anything about it, he doesnt like me back. So whats the point? But yet, sometimes I see him looking at me. Its really weird. I cant get up the nerve to ask him out :( i was thinking maybe I should slip a note in his locker?? BUT IM TOO FRUCKING NERVOUS! I think that his kind of humor, around his friends, would make it SO easy to make fun of me if he thought I was stalker-ish or whatever. I need help... I need help... :(
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ok i would say to start talking to him if u really like him.... when your in band say hello and say how was your summer and talk about what u did. Then after a while you should ask him what hes doin on a certain day and just ask him if he would want to hang out sometime but not on a date. If you keep talkin to him and hanging out with him then he will start to like you and he will get to kno you better. When i started to read your letter i thought he sounded really nice and i dont think he sounds like an ignerant person that wouldnt want to hang out with you. So just try to start talkin to him and hangin out with him and you'll get to know eachother. Good luck! <3Juliet<3
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Yeah you do need help...But not with the guy, but with your words here on advicenators... I dont meen to be mean, But you should stop with the ish....ok now ill give give you your advice!
You can give him a note, Coz that is some thing I have done once or twice, But the best thing to do is smile at him alot and if he smiles back then the next day then just try to talk to him when he is not around anyone!
Hope I helped!!!
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Don't slip a note....that's a little immature :o/
Just try to talk to him again, start really casual and then you guys will probably be friends again. If you're looking at him and he's looking too, but just not talking to you, then he's probably just as nervous to talk to you as are to him! just play it cool and casual. If you guys were good friends then there should be no problem. Good Luck!
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I wouldn't leave a note in his locker as that's a little weird. My dvice is just to find a way to get talking to him again and keep throwing him flirty smiles. If after a while you still haven't got the courage to ask him out and he still hasn't said anything, it's probably best to move on.
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