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Question Posted Saturday October 30 2004, 11:09 am

Is it ok for a guy to stay out late partying if his girl is sitting at home waiting for him?

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Additional info, added Saturday October 30 2004, 11:12 am:
I mean stay out late.

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xhurleybabiix answered Saturday October 30 2004, 12:15 pm:
No, you should be with him.

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rainbowcherrie answered Saturday October 30 2004, 12:11 pm:
No. That's never okay. Imagine how she feels. You could be doing anything, you could be with anyone. How would you feel if it was you?

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MelikoDee answered Saturday October 30 2004, 12:09 pm:
Well it all depends on the situation.

If he was supposed to hang out with you instead, then no it's not okay.

If he is having a guy's night out, then it's okay.

If he is flirting or getting intimiate with another female, it's DEFINITELY not okay, assuming you two are not in an 'open relationship'.

Assuming he is having a guy's night out, then you have to give him his space. Go out on your own once in a while too. Don't be dependent and wait for him. Do you see him waiting for you? No. So go out and have some fun with your friends.

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xplisit15 answered Saturday October 30 2004, 11:58 am:
omg no its not ok. If u know the girl is at home waiting for u then its so wrong. The girl just about always comes first, but there should b at least one day where u can chill with the guys. But make sure u dont leave the girl waitin for ya!

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IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug answered Saturday October 30 2004, 11:39 am:
no not really it hurts the grl... it is basiclly like burning her! i mean it shows that you kinda dont care about your relationship! i mean it is okay if you tell her were you are who you are with and everything... i would visit her if i were you!! i mean ya i guess you can if you tell her but i mean i wouldnt
HOPE I HELPED!
~MICHELLE

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ThReEdAySgRaCe_GuRl answered Saturday October 30 2004, 11:37 am:
As long as she knows it and you call and tell her ur gonnna hang out wit the boys or watever and shes ok wit it! hope i helped!

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AmericnJewl answered Saturday October 30 2004, 11:31 am:
I guess it depends. If the guy tells the girl that he'll be going out and won't be coming home until very late and it's an agreed upon thing, then she really has no ground to be mad. But, if he doesn't let her know that he's out and doesn't call to let her know that he's going to be out very late, that's totally inconsiderate.

My ex-boyfriend would plan to hang out with friends then come and pick me up for a date. Well, on more than one occasion he would do that and show up 3 or 4 hours later than he said he would. NOT okay! (That's why he's an ex!)

On the other hand my current beau (my fiance) is in school full time and has an office job so he often will spend Friday nights at home studying. I let him know that I'm going to be going out with my girlfriends (since Sat. night is "our" night) and I'll call him around 11 or 12 to let him know that I'm still out but okay.

It's just a matter of consideration and showing the other person that, even though you're out with other people, you're still being considerate and caring.

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Sporkster answered Saturday October 30 2004, 11:29 am:
No, not really. I mean, I wouldn't like someone to do that and leave me home, then come back later than usual.

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ElementaryHustler answered Saturday October 30 2004, 11:26 am:
Sometimes but not all the times. I guess it depends on what he's doing.

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prettyinpink1115 answered Saturday October 30 2004, 11:25 am:
not if u told her that u would do something with her... that would be like you blew her off.

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live2rock answered Saturday October 30 2004, 11:23 am:
yeah, it's a guy thing

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Ask_me_a_question answered Saturday October 30 2004, 11:20 am:
Not a good idea, as a generalization.

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