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my best freind Tina and i have been best freinds sicne we were 4 and we're so close! well she and i became freinds w/ this girl kaylinn and at first her and tina were really close but a couple months later they got into a huge fight and hate eachother...now im caught in the middle...i would pick my bestfrind over kaylinn cuz i've known tina for ever but im not gunna just drop kaylinn. i dont want enemies! anyway i really dont kno what to do so if theres any tips feel free to say them
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you know what..this situation will happen all through your life...even as adults women are just plain stupid when it comes to this stuff.
So you have to sit them both down and tell them that you are going to be friends with both of them They will either acccept it or not..but in the end..it is their decison.
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Just step out of it! It's none of your buisness! Just let them handle their own problems and you deal with whats yours. Don't worry. It will all blow over soon.
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My answer is to stay mutual. Let them know you would not appreciate it if either of them were going to make you choose between the two. Let them know that what's going on is between them and you don't want to talk behind anyones back, but will be there for each of them for listening or to maybe gesture some advice.
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I got one tip for you...let them get over it, you shouldn't have to choose a friend just because they're fighting!
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this happens to me alot.. i'm really diversed when it comes to relationships.. it really sucks sometimes... but back to your dilemma. tell them that you refuse to pick sides and that tina is your best freind but kaylinn is still a friend of yours. tell them both (if it ever comes up.. dont bring it up it usually ends up getting messy) but if it comes up then tell them both that you are going to remain neutral. there is no reason that YOU cannot be friends with BOTH. hope i helped
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I've been in this situation many of times! Sometimes friends just don't get along but it's best to keep away from the arguing. Let each one of them know that you don't want to be in the middle, you like both of them, but your not picking sides! Also don't talk about the other one when their not around, trust me it will get around. So just keep outta the middle! -SoNnIe
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i no wht u r going through hun...get them 2 talk 2 each other not yelling @ each other but let them talk 2 each other about y they dont like the other then either:
1)if they dont make u choose between the 2 of them then try nd stay out of it as much as possible dont talk about another behind 1s back...
2)if the do make u choose (only if the MAKE u choose) then i dont think either 1 is a friend b/c they r making u choose
GOOD LUCK!!! x3 if u need nething us just drop it in the inbox...
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Im in the same situation my two bestfriends are in a fight and its really hard for me becuz if i want to invite one somewhere the other one will be upset becuz they just cant be together.. but the best think to do is try to hang out with them both equally so their feelings wont get hurt. Be friends with both of them and dont get involved cuz one will end up bein mad at you.If your startin to get invovled then tell both of them that its between them and you dont want to be enimies with either one of them cuz their your good friends. Well hope I helped! <3Juliet<3
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