Question Posted Thursday October 21 2004, 10:13 pm
ok so theres this boy thats like 4'7 or sumthing in 7th grade and im like 5'7 in the same grade....(i just turned 13) and he supposedly likes me, but is too shy to tell me cuz he thinks...i dunno wut he thinks! anyways, hes so cute(like a little baby) and i have this thing that when i find out that ppl like me, i feel like i like them too, even if i dont...i wanna go out with him, but at the same time, i dont.... i dont wanna be going out with a guy so much shorter than me cuz i wont b able to kiss him and hug him and sutff...sorry this question is so long, but i need advice....thanx mucho
oxDaYxDreaMxo answered Friday October 22 2004, 3:45 pm: How Cute! I dated a guy about a foot taller than me.. but if your 13, and he's prob 13, he'll hit a growth spurt soon hopefully.. don't worry about height, if you like him as a person, that should be the most important part, right? Well make a good choice, and remember, he's still a person. Hope I helped! -Ce [ oxDaYxDreaMxo's advice column | Ask oxDaYxDreaMxo A Question ]
alisonmarie answered Friday October 22 2004, 9:23 am: I think your real problem is more than this one guy: it's letting yourself be led by other people's emotions.
There is no point in going out with people you don't really like. It's not fair to you OR them.
In future, I would only date people who you were interested in BEFORE they asked you out. Otherwise, you're wasting time with the wrong guys while the right guys won't approach you because you're taken.
Be polite but firm to guys who ask you out that you are not interested in - it's the mature way to act, and while they might have their feelings hurt, it's much easier for everyone if it happens right at the start instead of down the road.
You deserve to be with people you actually like. Remember that.
spags10 answered Friday October 22 2004, 12:50 am: If you like the kid then you should go out with him if he asks you out. So what if he's really short, you can't help who you like. Just make sure that you like him, and aren't just doing it to say you have a boyfriend because otherwise you could end up hurting him. [ spags10's advice column | Ask spags10 A Question ]
Xo_Blondii_oX answered Thursday October 21 2004, 10:54 pm: go for it anyway!! i did that...no1 cares about the height difference because if you really like him it wouldnt matter!!..i still kissed my bf and hugged him even tho he was almost a foot shorter then me who cares what everyone thinks all that matters is you two! [ Xo_Blondii_oX's advice column | Ask Xo_Blondii_oX A Question ]
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