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My boyfriend and my best friend
I've had a big crush on this one guy for a few weeks now. I've gotten to know him, and all of my friends that are in the "gossip network" found out that the guy that I like a lot (let's call him Adam) likes me and asked me out to the dance. So I say yes, and I'm happy for the next few days (and still am happy). So I send along with a note my number and my email. He sends me his. So now my friends in the "gossip network" told me that we are officially boyfriend and girlfriend. My best friend *AMY* likes ADAM, is ADAM's friend, and is REALLY mad at me because ADAM asked me to the dance and not her. She keeps calling me a backstabber and a piece of garbage. She's still my friend, but I don't know how she could get all mad at me if HE asked ME out and not her. It's not my fault. How can we get to be friends again?
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oh no..the jealous friend...girl...a real friend would not be mad that someone she likes..likes you..would she be hurt and not want to do thing with you two..yeah...but not mad. No friend...no REAL freind will call you names behind your back.Period..I would say bye bye to this person...as long as you date Adam..she will be a snake.
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well even if she doesnt admit it she is mad at herself... she may be thinking that she's just not pretty enough to cut it or that you're just too perfect or w/e.. give her some time and remind her that guys come and go but you and her will always be friends. if it really bothers you then you can tell her that you'll break up or break off away from adam till she is ok with you two being togther (it probably hurts her to see you two together.. it usually does). thats only saying that you can handle that... no one is forcing you to break up with adam.. it's totally up to you.. just talk to your freind and see where it gets you.
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