There is this guy I like, and its like taking over my life.. all the sudden thats all i think about, its crazy! I can't conentrate anymore, even when I'm with my friends.. i dont pay any attention to them. I haven't told anybody that I like him. But how can I stop thinking at him ALL the time? -- Love *Melissa*
xXaLiCiAXx answered Friday November 12 2004, 9:20 pm: Its just a crush!! :) lol.. if u wanna stop thinkin about him just try thinking about other things and putting you mind on something else like staying busy with things [ xXaLiCiAXx's advice column | Ask xXaLiCiAXx A Question ]
socalblondie0202 answered Friday November 12 2004, 8:49 pm: how cute you are smitten, well for starters tell who ever you are crushing on that you have feelings for them but dont scare them away...sounds like it may be infatuation perhaps. but why not think about him if what you are thinking makes you smile, you never know he may be watching and if you are happy then he might want to make you smile
MyPainIsReal answered Friday November 12 2004, 6:34 pm: I can't say that there is much way for you to stop thinking about him. Obviously, you fancy this guy which means it just can't go away. It isn't totally bad that you can't stop thinking about him though. Why don't you try talking to one of your close friends about this guy!? Express how you feel so you don't have all of it bottled inside. You're still going to think about him though. I think in my opinion if I couldn't get my mind off of a guy, I'd tell him! :) Write a note, a e-mail, call, something of the sort. :) I think if you tell a friend or the guy or even both, it will ease your mind a little about it. You'll have the thoughts shared so that it doesn't drive ya nuts. :P [ MyPainIsReal's advice column | Ask MyPainIsReal A Question ]
pinklemonadestand answered Friday November 12 2004, 6:30 pm: Well Melissa there is really know way to stop thinking about this guy! Just try your hardest to slow your mind down alittle! I was like that with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago when i started going out with him and then it just slowed down and now i only think about him alittle bit.... but you like this boy alot and your mind is telling you to tell him that you have feelings for him or you will keep thinking about it OVER AND OVER again! I hope i helped
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