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Q: I like this boy alot and I know he likes me to. I'm not sure if he wants commitment with me though. I really would like to go out with him. All I ever think about is wanting to be in his arms. I feel so comfterble with him. More comfterble then ive ever felt. When we talk on the phone he says thinks like "if I was there I would hold you." And all this other stuff. I want to go out with him. How should I get him to ask me out or find out if he wants to go out with me or if it would be easyer how do I ask him out? Any ideas?

I would say joke around with the idea for a little bit then start to ask him questions about going out but don't say it directly.. and guys are kinda slow so give good hints that are easy to pick up on

Q: i am too afraid to talk to this girl at my school, chrissy, and i dont know what to say to her. Do you have any advice to help me out?

you could just find something to say... like think of a stupid question that mabey you already even know the answer too but just ask her anyways to start a conversation. Like ask a question about school or some kind of project or assignment and then slowly back into a conversation

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***~MaDdY~***

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Q: im nearly 17 and my bf and when my bf and i go to have sex his penis doesn't fit in all the way
its hurts when he tries to push further
could i be too tight for his penis what can we do?

well thats usually what happens but that could be the case that his penis is too big so just work it in a little and when your having sex just tell him when it hurts and eventually your vigina will widen up and it'll be less painful

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***~MaDdY~***

Q: how do you know if you are ready to have sex? im so scared i have a bf that beats me and i cant dump him because i love him. and i want to have sex with him but i dont know if i am ready!

Well.... you should beat him up a little bit(you could take that sentence in 2 ways) yea well sex is a big deal and if he ***CAN GET IT UP*** then your good to go.lol

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Q: my g/f tld me 2day tht she felt different abt wen we made out n tht she didnt luv me as much as she used to..n thn i tld her how i felt n she said((no joke))o well i luv u but not as much as i used to...wat shuld i do?

If thats how she feels mabey it's time to give it up and start looking for someone new because eventually it will come to that because that little love that she has for you now will soon disappate unless you dramatically change her mind but i don't think that'll happen

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***~Maddy~***

Q: Please does n-e-body know a website where a 14 year old girl can get a job!!!!!Heelllpppp please I need a job quick to help around the house.

You should get working papers signed when your 15 and some jobs might hire you but they won't be glorious jobs... i'm talkling like McDonalds and fast food places like that. Hey it's not that great but it's something

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***~Maddy~***

Q: im 13 yrs old and school just started....over the summer all my friends were goin shoppin but i had no money....whats a good job for me? please help im flat broke lol... :)

Well theres not really too many options of jobs that you have when your 13 but you can do little things like babysitting or even something as stupid as chores for family and neighbors to get some extra $$$

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***~Maddy~***

Q: Help. When I order chicken wings in a fancy restaurant should I pick them up and eat them or use the cutlery provided?

oh just pick them up and eat them like you usually do just because it's a fancy restaurant doesn't mean you have to be sophisticated. Wings are supposed to be messy

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***~Maddy~***

Q: i went all the way how can i tell my mom

no no no don't tell your mom not yet it's too soon tell her when your an adult. If you do it now she'll be heart broken and pissed to no extent so wait a couple years then tell her so she won't be as mad.

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***~Maddy~***

Q: how can u get a guy to notice you?

Just talk to him about stupid common things and then as time goes on mabey you'll become friends and even closer and add a pinch of flirting in too... it doesn't have to be dramatic just a little

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***~Maddy~***

Q: one of my best friends is starting to get really bad B/O. i dont know if i should tell her or not. im worried that if i do she might get mad at me because she is the type of person who u have to b really careful about what u sat to her cause she might like get mad really easily. Any suggestions? thanks.

When she walks by spray her a bit with something good and if she notices then she'll get the idea or just be like someone smells and you don't have to tell her it's her just say that someone smells and if she knows it's her then she's put some deoderant on jeeeeeezeeeeee

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***~Maddy~***

Q: ok i like this guy... ALOT! but there seems to be this little rat face bitch always in my way. and she keeps flirting with him. and i know she is doing it to piss me off. but i dont know what i should do?

Be like back off bitch! plus if she's rat faced and ugly he won't go for her anyways so i wouldn't worry about it. when your around him just tell him how much she bothers you and he'll probebly start to hate her too.

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***~Maddy~***

Q: Do yall think that there is someone for everyone? because right now im thinking that no one is right for me ... i mean every guy i date or "talk" to isnt the right guy and ive never had a longer relationship than 3 weeks! please answer! -kayla

Well you got a long time to decide whether or not a person is right for you and you'll go through a ton of boyfriends before you find that one person that you fit with really well. It'll just take some time.

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***~Maddy~***

Q: okay my friend is going to ask this girl out but he wants to know if she even knows who he is and hes askin me how he would know...but i like him n i've liked him for like 3 years and i dont want to tell him stuff like if she pushes u or trips u cuz i do that stuff to him..can anyone help us out? tnxs

if anything that will give him hints that you like him too and that might be a good thing because he might like you too.

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***~Maddy~***

Q: I was really good friends with this girl named madeline.... today she came up to me and punched me in the face in school(i still am in school right now) for no reason at all! I fell on the ground and didn't hit her back! I should of (well i think so at least) And i didn't! Should i of went after her or did i do the right thing by not hitting her back?

You know what I think... I think you should know when to keep your mouth shut and not to tell everyone things that arn't supposed to be said. I trusted in you time and time again and you always go behind my back and blab to everyone and that gets me into some deep trouble in my own life and I'll be damned if my life gets all screwed up because someone doesn't know when to talk and when not to talk.

Q: does anyone know how to do the perfect messy bun??? when i try, i always screw it up. thanks!!

all I do is brush my hair so it's fluffy and then pull it back (and if it has bumps on the top thats a good thing)so then i just put in in a regualr bun but i just mess the bun up with my hands then get another hair-tie and wrap it around the new messy bun

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***~Maddy~***

Q: okay im 16 years old and in play football for my school. Well every practice i see this gurl there and she keeps on looking and smiling at me. well one day i went up to her but she ran off.

Does sher like me? WAT COULD I DO TO MAKE HER COMFORTABLE?

Yea she probebly likes you and is just a bit nervous. To get her to feel more comfortable you should just smile back and smile and then try talking to her in a calm casual manner.

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***~Maddy~***

Q: im 15 year old male.

okay i got a prob. I like this one gurl and she asked me to go to the movies with her. When i went to her housr to pick her up her friends were wit her. i kinda wanted to be alone wit her. well in the movies we were about to kiss wen her friend intterupted. 2 weeks later we go alone i try to kiss her but she shyly pulls away saying not here. I no she lkes me.

Wat do i do? WAt do u think hapened in between those times.
PLEASE ALOT OF PEOPLE ANSWER I NEED AS MUCH HELP AS I CAN GET

She's probebly just shy or nervous or mabey she just wants to tease you to get you to stay "Involved" with her longer. Pull her aside somewhere when the chance is right if you wanna get her alone

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***Maddy~***

Q: SORRY IT'S LONG
It it normal to get vaginal discharge even before you have your period?
Like I'm gunna be 14 in a few months, and I've been having discharge, and I've NEVER had my period.
So my questions are, is it normal that I don't have my period?
and is it normal that I'm getting discharge?

What should I do, we don't have any pads around the house, and I'm not a fan of tampons, also I find it really akward to talk to my mom about that kind of thing, so I don't want to like go out and get pads or anything until I actually have my period
What should I do?

Oh discharge is normal and it just means your getting ready to get your period and it's weird talking to your parents about it... so you'll definatly know when you get it so when that time comes then you can just tell your mom real casually "Hey I got my period" and it won't be a big deal

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***~Maddy~***

bio

Well I am 16 and I've been through a lot in those years including things like sex, drugs, and a lot of criticism and I feel I have a lot of advice to give to those who are struggling with a problem of there own.