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im 15 year old male.
okay i got a prob. I like this one gurl and she asked me to go to the movies with her. When i went to her housr to pick her up her friends were wit her. i kinda wanted to be alone wit her. well in the movies we were about to kiss wen her friend intterupted. 2 weeks later we go alone i try to kiss her but she shyly pulls away saying not here. I no she lkes me.
Wat do i do? WAt do u think hapened in between those times.
PLEASE ALOT OF PEOPLE ANSWER I NEED AS MUCH HELP AS I CAN GET
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She sounds really shy. I think you guys need to go on a date alone. Mention to her that you'd like to go to the movies, just the two of you, and try to be as gentle and understanding as you can. Good lucK!
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She's probably just shy and awkward. She probably wanted to take her friends along because she needed someone there to help her if something went wrong. It could very well have been her first date and she was nervous. But, talk to her and ask her what's up.
~Laura~
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well, i think that she's a little embarassed about kissing you infront of <a href="[Link](Mouse over link to see full location);. its not that she doesnt like you, or that shes embarassed by you, but she thinks about all the bad things that kissing could lead to.. there really isnt anything bad about it, but to her, there might be, or maybe shes never kissed anyone and she is nervous.
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Hey~ Well she is not ready and maybe thats why her friends were with the the first time. Just kinda lay low for awhile and try again later! I hope I helped! ~Paige~
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She's probebly just shy or nervous or mabey she just wants to tease you to get you to stay "Involved" with her longer. Pull her aside somewhere when the chance is right if you wanna get her alone
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ok, i have the same problem...she's just shy. that or she just isn't ready?well n e way, it's normal for her to pull away, maybe she doesnt feel like she knows u enough or she's just shy. hope i helped...and good luk...
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There's nothing at all wrong with how she's acting!!! TRUST ME! She's just a shy girl..She sounds EXACTLY like me. For the first couple of weeks she's going to want to go out with you and her friends at the same time because she's too scared/shy to go by herself. About the kissing thing, she prolly thinks she's going to do something wrong, etc so she makes up excuses not to kiss you. I've done that a million times!!! As for her friends..that prolly annoys u alot that they are always around and even intruppting you two. If it's always like that, then talk to the girl about it..this is what I would say if I were you, "Listen..I REALLY am starting to like you alot..i think ur an awesome girl and really cute, but it's kinda getting hard to get to know u better when ur friends are ALWAYS around..i think they are totally kool n everything, but i would like to take u out on a date, just the 2 of us..how does that sound to you??" good luck
kristin
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she's prolly new at kissing! and shes prolly scared she'll mess up and youll run away. hope i help! kLg*
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She may feel more comfortable with her friends around her. You need to give her time to prepare, and get ready for an 'alone with a guy' date. Some girls are uncomfortable with that. You need to get to know her more, and that fact that she said 'not here' when you kissed, probably sugests, that she isn't ready to kiss either. Just get to know her better, i'm sure she didn't change in the time inbetween. But, give her time to mature and get ready.
The best of luck, dear.
AskMegan
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the girls really nervous. I mean, i dont know how much your on this site but all the time i see people saying "Im nervous to kiss him/her, i always pull away" soo maybe wait it out a little. I wouldnt ask her if shes too nervous to kiss you cause that might put her on the spot. Give her a week or two and try again. If she pulls away once again, simply say "what was that?"
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well, has she ever kissed before? if its her first kiss then maybe shes nervous about it. or she doesnt want to do it in fromt of a lot of people. try taking her on a walk somewhere and then try again. she might just want it to be special. hope i helped.
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I don't really think anything happened,I think she's just nervous and a little scared maybe.That might be part of the reason she brought her friends the first time,sort of a security blanket thing,ya know?She may be a shy girl,and she may be scared of getting hurt,or still trying to figure out how you feel about her.Sometimes we girls tend to over-analyze things! ;) I would just let her know how much you really like her,and let her know that she can trust and feel comfrotable with you.Tell her that as much as you would love to kiss her,you won't rush her,you'll wait until she feels ready.That way she knows you truly care,and it should make her feel more comfrotable and at ease,so she can just go with the flow! Hope this helps!! ;)
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I vote shy as well. She's likely nervous and unsure of herself and what she really wants. Don't press the issue, but likewise, don't blow her off if you think you'd like a relationship with her... give yourself enough time.
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Like you said she is shy. That's why on your first date, she brough her friends. I am sure she likes you, she is just nervous and scared. Be pacietnt and take your time. If you are a gentelman, she will come around.
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Tell her how you feel about her, maybe ask her out since you know that she likes you...
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