why is my ex trying to ruin the relationship im in with my new boyfriend robby?? i mean i dont like my ex and he has a girlfriend so why is he doing this to me??
xBestAddiction answered Tuesday June 28 2005, 7:19 pm: You dumped your ex right? Well that probably means he still has feelings for you even though he has a gf. You have probably liked more then one person at one time which is probably what is happening. So just try to ignore him. [ xBestAddiction's advice column | Ask xBestAddiction A Question ]
suurrahh answered Tuesday June 28 2005, 5:03 pm: Maybe he still has feelings for you. Even if he has a gf, he could still have feelings for you and just doesnt want to let you go. [ suurrahh's advice column | Ask suurrahh A Question ]
dancinqueen08 answered Tuesday June 28 2005, 12:01 am: This is my own opinion and may not be right but I'm just putting it out there. I think guys are very territorial. Anything they once had any "claim" to, they feel like they still do even after you guys break up. He could be feeling jealous even if he currently has a girlfriend and just trying to do whatever he can to keep you away from anyone else. Sorry if that was completely off the mark and didn't help you. [ dancinqueen08's advice column | Ask dancinqueen08 A Question ]
Michelley answered Monday June 27 2005, 11:05 pm: hes probably jealous...for whatever reason you guys broke up, you're not having that problem with your new boyfriend and your ex is remembering all the GOOD times you guys had together and hes remembering how nice it used to be with you. he might not like you at all, or he might, either way it'll pass in a little while, just try to ignore him and if your new boyfriend really wants things to work, he won't let your ex get in the way
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SmileLikeYouMeanIt answered Monday June 27 2005, 9:06 pm: I can think of countless people who this same thing has happened to. Guys tend to get really jealous even after a relationship with a girl. He is probably just upset about the break up and can't stand to see you with another guy, so he is being immature by trying to ruin your new realationship. This is completely typical of guys... pretty much every guy I know has done this to friends of mine they have gone out with. Just don't let it bother you and ignore your ex... don't let him see that you are upset about it (if you even are). He will feel like a loser for being so selfish, and he will eventually stop bothering you. Just remember that this is his problem, because he can't stand to see you with another guy. Just ignore him and he will eventually quit. [ SmileLikeYouMeanIt's advice column | Ask SmileLikeYouMeanIt A Question ]
Michele answered Monday June 27 2005, 8:57 pm: BEcause men are possessive. Don't ever forget that. The meanest ones that act the toughest, are the ones that think they OWN you. Remember OJ Simpson? Even though his wife successfully divorced him, and they both went on to other relationships. He never forgave her, and killed her, like he always said he would. Avoid guys like that. Don't take any sh1t from him. If he threatens you, call the police. Do not give him any reason to believe that there is ANY chance at all that you might to back with him. If your lucky, he will become possessive about the girl he is with now and forget about you.
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