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boy friend and best friend
i got a boyfriend and i think my best friend likes him cuz she gets mad when i talk about him. Should i talk to her about it or just let it go. Cuz my boyfriend hates her and she thinks that him and every boy likes her. Should i talk to her or what should i do?¿
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She might be a little jealous or something. I don't think it would hurt to ask her why it is she gets mad when you talk about him. Maybe she feels you don't talk about anything else and it makes her mad. Make sure you talk to her about other things too. :)
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talk to her and find out exactly why she is being like this...my guess is that she does like him and is jealous but she needs to learn that not every guy is going to like her
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You need to talk to her and not make assumptions before you know the facts. Like my mom always says, "Don't ASSUME..it makes an ASS out of U and ME" ha see how ass u and me makes assume. Yeah just because she gets mad when you talk about him, doesn't nessisarily mean that she likes him. Maybe she sees something in him that she doesn't like that you don't see.
I hope this helped =D
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You shouold set her straight. If she gets mad at you then she isn't a great friend because i mean he is your bf!!! I think she is full of herself if she thinks every boy likes her!! Well I hope I helped out with your problem.If you need more advice you know you can lways ask me!!
claire
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Maybe she is just sick of hearing about him all the time...Like when you hang out do you talk about him the whole time and not the things that were important to you and her before he came along??? That could be the problem...Try forgetting about him while you are with her...so that you dont loose a friend over some guy...I know that it sounds impossible to do...But believe me...It's happened to me before...
~*lil_froggy9*~
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Your friend is not nessisarily (sorry i stink at spelling) mad when youtalk about him because she likes him, it could be because she doesnt have a boyfriend and you do (that is if she doesnt have a boy friend) or because she is annoyed by how much you talk about him, thats what people tend to do when they are exited about something (theres nothing wrong with you) but as for the whole she things everyboy likes her, she needs an attitude adjustment (dont tell her that) For now you should try not to talk about him that much when you are near her and see what happens, if she doesnt get mad anymore then after a while maybe you could ask her why she was acting like that ok? Hope I helped! =D
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I don't think she likes him, I just think she feels like you only care about your boyfriend and not her. If she doesn't have a boyfriend, it might make her feel sad and lonely, but she doesn't want to show that she is sad so she takes it out as anger. You need to make time for both of them. Plan seperate activities for you both. Maybe Friday can be time to spend with your friend, like have a sleepover or something. Saturday can be your time to spend with your boyfriend, go to a movie or something. You should not talk about your boyfriend infront of your friend though anymore. If she still gets upset, then you need to talk to her and let her know that your friendship with her comes first! Good Luck!
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