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Question Posted Wednesday October 19 2005, 11:43 pm

well me and my boyfriend broke up 4 or 5 days ago, and I talked to him today and I mentioned that I am talking to a x bf of mine,and he didnt sound very happy, I asked him if he was ok he said yea....but he didnt sound like he wanted me to date another guy, when he broke up with me he told me from his heart that I was the hardest girl to break up with cause he really cared for me, and he barely has emotional feelings for girls but he was CRYING on the phone when he told me that he just wanted to be close friends.... can ya please give me some advice on if he still cares for me...

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Vendetta answered Thursday October 20 2005, 5:09 pm:
Yeah, he either cares about you or is a really jealous and possessive guy. However, if you -do- want to date someone, don't let an ex-boyfriend stop you, since you aren't together anymore. Don't let them completely control your life.

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girlygirl answered Thursday October 20 2005, 4:33 pm:
Yep, he definitely still cares about you... but not enough to still be your bf. I'm sure it was hard for him to step up and break it off with you. The thing is that you should keep moving on with your life. You don't have to share all the details with him. I think part of his problem is that maybe he doesn't want to be with you anymore, but he also doesn't anyone else to be with you - and that's not playing fair.

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BBALLGURL67 answered Thursday October 20 2005, 4:31 pm:
I DEFINATLY think he still cares about you...and that is probably why it was hard for him to break up with you and it is hard for him to think of you with another guy. The reason he broke up with you is because maybe he just needs time apart or doesnt see you as being his girlfrined anymore...but he definatly still cares about you!! Anymore questions just drop one in my inbox....good luck


xoxo leah

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xRoOxiSxBlOnDex answered Thursday October 20 2005, 9:34 am:
I think he still cares for you.. but that doesn't mean he wants to DATE you. You need to talk to him and just ask; you DO need to know what's going on. So ask him!!
♥ Melissa

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dhrutts answered Thursday October 20 2005, 5:51 am:
Hi There,

If you have been behaving yourself perfectly well, but he is being a bit jealous, they might just need a bit of affection and reassurance.

Signs that their jealousy is starting to get out of hand include the following; calling to your mobile phone while you are apart to check up on you, listening in on your phone conversations, banning you from wearing clothes you look good in, and going through your bags looking for evidence of an affair.

Someone who flies into possessive rages for no good reason needs professional help.

Goodluck

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sillyrob answered Thursday October 20 2005, 5:15 am:
Well, sorry for your ex, but you guys aren't together. As much as he may not like it, you have every right to talk to other guys. He's either going to have to get over you, or just not be the friends he wants to be. He can care for you all he wants, but unless you want to get back with him, then its pointless. So yeah, let him know that you are your own person, and you can date if you want to.

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S2BaBiDawLS2 answered Thursday October 20 2005, 1:09 am:
dont worry babe. he DEFiNiTELY still has feelings for you and cares about you a lot, he just doesnt want a relationship with you right now, for whatever his reason is. it may take him a while to actually stop liking you. as of now, i`m sure he still likes you, and no matter what, he will always care about you. of course he`s gonna be jealous of another guy because he still has to get used to not being able to hhold you and call you his own. hope i helped <33

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Altruistic answered Thursday October 20 2005, 12:23 am:
Just wondering, he cared so much for you... why did you guys break up? Who broke up with who anyway? It's hard to tell if he still cares for you, I think you should wait a bit and see first. He might be sincere or he might not. If he was literally crying, then he might be though and though it sounds like he might be jealous when you talk about other guys, if he still cared for you, why would have he broke up or let you break up with him in the first place? I think you should give it a bit more time and see if he sincerely cares.

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