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wanting to MOVE!!!
well see my best friend is moving and All my old friends still HATE!!! me dont ask why...but I dont want to be around them and she is the only one that I can commuicate with when the others are around, and I want to move cause I am sick of there FAT mouths and they always want to ruin a relationship that I would be in... what do I do???
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I suggest it is a signal for you to talk to them. I believe its a matter of communication. If you can't talk to them, make other ways like write to them or write to on a stationery. There are many ways. Good luck. :
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Considering the fact that you will probably be unable to move, and that running away from your problems doesn't help you solve them or grow from them, I would say just leave the girls alone. Let the fat mouths be. There has to be someone near you that you are friendly with and who is willing to talk to you. Just be yourself. You will make more friends. As long as you don't get caught up in the negativity and the nastiness that can come from young girls. As long as you know who you are, and you believe that you are a good person and all of that junk, there will be friends out there for you.
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Ignore them and find new friends.
If you move, it isn't going to change much. There are many assholes wherever you go, unfortunately.
Plus, if you move, that shows you are intimidated. If you are intimidated, they win.
Don't let that happen.
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Hi,
If she's moving to another part of the country, or even overseas, it isn't the end of the world. You can still stay in touch by phone, email, letter and so on, no matter how far away you are from one another. Yes, you will probably miss those regular nights out, but that doesn't mean you can't meet up for weekends or holidays.
Who knows, maybe she'll end up somewhere interesting or exotic and it'll be an excellent excuse for a trip to see them. As a goodbye present, you could get them a phonecard or some stationery with stamps and your address already on them, to show that you want to stay friends. Even if they're out of contact for a while, they'll get back to you eventually if the friendship is still strong.
If you make the effort, and have realistic expectations, then you'll probably stay in touch with your friend for years and years. It's just that the dynamics of the relationship might be a little different, that's all. Unless they're slack as hell, going off to join a monastery that has no contact with the outside world, or they've changed their number and address and told you to stop calling, you'll still be mates for a long time to come.
Try and start making an effort with your other friends you may not like them but who else will you have then?
Takecare
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Find new friends. My brilliant answer. If your old friends hate you and talk badly about you, dump them. Who needs those kind of friends? Join a new group of people who will talk to you and be your friend and wont ruin your relationships. That's the best advice i could give... get rid of your old 'friends' and find real ones.
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