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My old self
Well see about 8 months ago I wouldnt care for you know like when My mom yells at me and then I met this guy that feels like he changed my life....but then we broke up and now my friends are worried that I will go back to being my oldself....they like the kinda new me... what do I do???
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I know you're probably getting a lot of corny answers such as, "you should follow your heart, and be yourself."
But, I think I might have something to make it not so corny. I guess this all comes down to you and your friends. I don't know who you are now, and who you were, but your best bet is to be the 'you' that was enjoyable to be. So, you say this guy changed your life and brought out the new you, was it a good you, someone you really liked being? Was it hard being the new you? Or maybe, you didn't really change into another person exactly. Maybe you were in this shell, and have finally broken out a little bit. Now, I am NOT talking about falling in love and making out, having sex, trying drugs, THAT is a whole new person. I'm talking about maybe you weren't so outgoing, and this guy helped you be more outgoing. Decide which 'you' was more comfortable and healthier for you, and when you finally know which one, decide if your friends will like it even though they aren't satisfied with who you chose, if they care so much about it, then they aren't worthy as friends, you are who you are, and theres noone stopping you unless you let it stop you.
-TheTeenGirl
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If YOU like the new you, keep acting that way. It shouldn't matter if the boy's around or not.
♥ Melissa
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Hi There,
Everyone has boyfriends and breaks up with them to thats part of life you have to try and let go and move on I know its easier said than done but honestly give it some time and start socialising and meeting other people thats the only way you'll be able to overcome this.
Best of luck
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Hey there! Changing is entirely up to you. The people who come into our lives my influence us, but it's always up to OUR decision and chose if we want to change ourselves. Because of your boyfriend in your life, he really helped you and changed you, but just because he's gone for the time being doesn't mean that you HAVE TO change into that former person you once were. It's not what happens to us, but how we handle them that changes us into better people. And so, don't think about what other may people think if you change or do not change. It's only about you. Ask yourself, do you like this person you have become?? If so, go with it and be yourself. It's about who you want to be, not what others may want you to be. Take care always, and if you need anything else, just hit me up on the inbox.
<3, normie
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