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Where is he?
I have lived with my mom since i was born. I don't know my father because my mother and him broke up before i was born. It really bothers me and i have mood swings now. I will be happy but then someone will say something and i get really upset. I have talked to my mom about not knowing my father and how much i really want to meet him but all she says is "he is an asshole and you dont want to meet him" which always leaves my crying myself to sleep. What should i do because i really want to meet him?
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Tell your mom that you really want to meet him, and you have a right to, as every child should have the right to meet their parent. Also tell her that you want to form your own opinions on him and stop taking what your mom says about him for granted. Offer to pay for the trip, if you want to, for that always boosts your wants.
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bring it up again..try not to get upset about what she says and just stick to it. tell her that its really important to you and why and that its your decision and your right. assure her that nothing will change between you and her and that you will probably realize that he is an asshole..and that's something you need to do.
someone else said that if he really cared he would come looking for you. that is not always the case. i know this from personal experience.
if she still doesn't let you, you could try finding him yourself. she will probably be upset about it though..so your best bet is to keep talking to her about it at an appropriate time.
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Your mom is trying to protect you so you dont get hurt. I would suggest that you tell her that is your choice whether you want to meet or not. Or you could ask your mother why he is what he is. My mother always told me my father was a jerk and when i would hang out with i finally understood what she meant. I think that you should do what you feel is right. You shouldnt have to cry yourself to sleep
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1. Your going to have moodswings no matter what. It just happens.
2. You probably don't want to meet him. He's probably an asshole.
3. If you really want to meet him, look for him. All you need is a name and anything is possible.
4. If you find him don't be surprised if he's an asshole and doesn't want to see you. Chances are he'd try to meet you if he really cared that much.
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