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right i think i like two guys and i can't pick between them they both told me they have feelings for me and they have both asked me out and because i could not pick i said no to them both. So heres the thing Jacks a muslim it will never be allowed by my mum if she found out she would go mad. James would be allowed its just i don't spend much time with james everyone says how cute me and james would be... but james just seems like he never wants to be with me in college. i am not sure what to do.someone help please. thank you.
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You don't really sound all that enthusiastic about dating James. I would say to do what you want, not what you mother wants. It's your life, not hers and the decisions you make should be based on your happiness. I've been put into a kind of similar situtation, and even though my mother absolutely hates the guy I'm dating now, for no reason I can think of, I'm really happy with my life and wouldn't have it any other way. However, if you are really afraid that your mother will go ballistic and make your life more miserable than Jack can make it happy, maybe you could talk to Jack and make a sort of promise or pact to each other to date, but not start dating seriously until you aren't living with your mother anymore. You can always spend time with Jack as friends and just wait a little while before starting a relationship. Once you're out of your mother's clutches you'll have a lot more freedom to do what you want to do! Good luck!
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this is going to sound cheesy, but follow your heart. I really liked a black guy and I had kept it from my mom for a while and so when i told her she told my dad and then they started yelling at them I callde them a racist and they were all "WE ARE NOT RACIST" even though they totally are. Anyawy, the point of that schpeal is that your parents arent perfect, but it is up to you to decide what you want. Your parents and other family members may not want you to do this, and remember, hell hath no fury like an unhappy familes wrath..
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Melanie
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Decide on which one is going to be a famous doctor, and which one is going to manage a McDonalds, and choose the doctor.
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I would give James a try... He did ask you out and you dont have to be stressed about your parents completely disapproving. When in college most are just beginning to feel their freedom so he might not want to feel attached right now. But that could change.. you know he's been interested. Just keep in touch and your presence will remind him that he does find you attractive. If he is okay with being your friend now... it might turn into more later.
Just remember things take time. You have to also ask yourself if He is worth the time. In the mean time... you may meet someone else.
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well since james would be easier i think you should go for him maybe hes just shy but if your start going out he will prob just come closer! my boyfriend was like that, shy and wen he got that i hated it wen he was shy coz it seemed like he didnt care bout me or didnt want to be with me, he was he started gettin really close to me and losening up and its going great now...!!!
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