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NEED HELP
I had a girlfriend for 1 1/2 years. we got into it some night and I hit her. CAN SOME ONE PLEASE HELP ME GET HER BACK????!!!
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First, you need to help yourself. You may need anger managment, you may not. But tell her that you're trying to get better and that you'll do ANYTHING to get back with her. You have to make sure you will NEVER do it again. You have to show her that you have changed and that you really want her back. If you play the guitar, write her a song, etc. Good luck!
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Yeah, no. First of all, drinking is stupid. I don't care if you're legal or not, it's a stupid thing to do. Second of all, I HIGHLY doubt you'll get her back. Unless this girl is ridiculously stupid, there's no way. You hit her, deal with the consequences.
♥ Melissa
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omgosh! you HIT her!? that is one thing that you just DONT do! well, if you wanna get her back tell her you couldnt control yourself cuz you were wasted and you didnt know what you were doing and that you would never hurt her on purpose...ask her if y'all can start over and promise her you'll never do it again
-kT
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Well, seeing as you didn't give us much detail at all, no, I'm sorry, I can't really help you.
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wow. you need to sit down withher. Explain to her what youdid and why. Explain your sorry as best as you can you need to speak wiht your heart about the next part. you need to tell her that you know that saying sorry will not change anything or throw away the fact that you hit her. you need to tell her that it was wrong for you to put her through that and that nothing can remake what you did. you need to tell her youare sorry adn that you love her and when shes ready you would do anything to go back out with her and you'll do anything for her before shes ready and tell her you'll maybe never drink infront of her again.?? Also explain how her slapping you made you feel..
How old are you???
-Meg/13-
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This is going to sound SO mean and so very very harsh, but just because you were drinking doesn't mean SHIT! You hit the girl, she'd be a MORON to get back together with you after you HIT HER. She's probably scared as hell to get back with you! I don't blame her for breaking up with you!
Sorry, but the odds are stacked SO high against you. She probably will never want to be with you again. Once you put your hands on the girl you are supposed to love and care about, there is no getting her back. Don't expect her to come crawling back at you, no matter HOW hard you beg.
Sure, you can tell her you were drunk, that you're sorry and you didn't mean it. But that probably won't change her decision to go back with you.
I know that sounds SO horrible, and may make you feel like a horrible person, but it's the God Honest Truth.
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alright, you need to explain to her what heppen dont get fustrated with her take it slow or you aint going to even have a chance talk to her tell her how you feel about her by her flowers. or something to show her you care for her. tell her you cant live with out her attempted to write a poem or something even if it sucks give it to her its the thought that counts. and that should also teach you a lesson drinking sucks.it screws stuff up. good luck on getting her back.
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Oh bad move...K well people make mistakes so you gotta show her that do some nice and sweet things to show u care. Don't mention the hitting her thing anymore especially don't make excuses for it like that you were drunk...we hate when guys try to make excuses for themselves.
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well since you were drinking, she had a right to slap you. you probably did something inappropriate and she tried to fight you off. and i doubt you'll get her back because once you hit your girlfriend, things arent ever going to go back to the way they were. sorry.
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You don't deserve her even if you were drinking. You don't hit a girl you asshole. I'm sorry but you don't hit a girl ever. That's just wrong.
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You hit her? My jaw always kind of drops when I hear that kind of thing. I know you don't want to hear this, and Im sure you'll turn around and rate me as a one but if you hit a girl EVER you do not deserve her.
If you really love her and want her back you better make a lot of sacrifices and prove to her that it won't happen again and show her that this is what you want.
Something sweet like a rose a day with a note attached to it telling her one reason why you love her. Do that for a few days, leave it on her car.. doorstep.. window...locker.
You'll really need to sit down and have a nice long conversation about this and get your anger under control.
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you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel. the strang thing about your question is that last night me and my boyfriend where talkin about that and he would never do that to me.. but you need to apologize to her. explain to her that it was a mistake.. that you didnt mean to do what you did. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
p.s
next time DONT EVER LAY YOUR HAND ON A GIRL!!!
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You need to apologize to her,tell her you will never hit her again,and get into therapy so she would see that you're being very serious about it,buy her some flowers or some other gift saying your truly sorry,and never meant to hurt her,and to give you a another chance,and that she won't regret for taking you back.She may not take you back right away but you need to earn her trust again,and be very respectful,be a gentleman to her,if she refuses to listen keep insisting,and don't give up which will show her even more that you really want to be in a relationship with her, and, that you care that much that you are not going to quit on her.Don't get frustrated take my advice I mean what do you have to lose,take some action now!
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How You Get a girl back is to give her flowers and choloate
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Well, I am guessing you are a teen so a year and a half is a long time to be with someone at that age. What you did is considered wrong by pretty much everyone. It's one thing to emotionally hurt someone, but it's a whole other thing to physically hurt them. A huge degree of trust, security, and respect is lost there. It's a good thing that you kind of realize what you did was wrong. Whether she is going to take you back is up to her and will probably be based on the level of degree in which you hit hurt. She has to feel safe first before she can let you back in. I think first, you should definetly apolgize SINCERELY. Abuse is a serious issue. Explain to her that maybe you didn't purposely mean to hit her but it was just uncontrollable as a reflex kind of. Also, you may want to consider some time of anger managment counseling or just talking to some type of conselor. Let her know that you are willing to make a change. And also, SHOW CHANGE. You can't just say it and everything be all good and well again. Give her some time, she MAY come around. But for future relationships, try to deal with fighting in a more civil manner. :)
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