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okay.. so me and my boyfriend went out for almost 3 years.. we broke up on september 23rd.. and like ive been upset ever since then.. like i just wanted to take a break .. and he got all mad.. and we broke up..., and he had 2 GIRLFRIENDS since then.. and we broke up on a friday and he went out with one girl the next.. i was so upset.. like maybe he didnt love me.. seems like it right? well he was my everything.. and i cant get him off my mind.. he was so sweet but now hes a total jerk.. i mean he use to cry over me how cute is that.. can you please give me some advice i need some real bad.. i know i didnt exactly have a question but can you tell me how i should take care of this and stop being so upset..!! THANKS SO MUCH!!!
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i think you should call him and tell him even if it is hard if you love him so much right now that is what is best
hope it all works out
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he's probably on the rebound. he's an asshole if he's had 2 girlfriends since then, so that should be initiative enough to start getting over him. 3 years is a long time, so you still have feelings for him, of course. this guy doesn't deserve you if he's dating other girls.
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well, i know it seems hard, but you just have to learn that hes not the person you thought he was. He seemed so nice while you were going out with him, becase you liked him a lot, maybe even loved him. but now that he has left, your noticing he has flaws and your right. I mean, sure its ok to cry, but eventually your gonna have to forget about it and let life go on. hope i helped!
<33 Nellie
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well maybe someone tole him the same exact thing im about to tell you...ive found that when you get a broken heart... find someone else! it gets your mind off the other person and it feels so great! if one doesnt work try another! he obviously tryin to get his mind off of you and its not working...if you still love him try confronting him and tellin him how you feel still ... if he feels the same then you wont regret it
Hope I Helped!! =)
- Samantha Lynn
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Since YOU broke up with HIM, it's really up to him what happens. You can't make him be friendly or make him care, which sucks, I know. Try talking to him. If he's still being a jerk, then he's not worth it anymore.
♥ Melissa
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honestly he still isnt over you. think about it has only been a week and he has had 2 girlfriends and he couldnt keep any. think about about why he couldnt keep them?? maybe because he LOVES you and CANT replace you. my advice is to talk to him and exoplain to him how you feel and talk things out and maybe you can try working things out.
*~Stephanie~*
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I've been giving this advice since January, and Rowling stole it from me... Grr. Truth be told, he does not love any of these girls who he goes out with. He's using it as a compromise. He lost you, he cannot take the grief. So, he's dating another girl to temporarily switch loves such that his heart isn't completely torn. He loves you still, just as you do to him. However, he is weaker in the sense that he needs a "Fake" girlfriend to get over his true one.
Just my views, as it was only 1 week after. It's showing that his love is stronger that it should have been, and it's hurting him badly.
If you need reference, read the last chapter of "Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince". Exact advice I gave, just I made it up 6 months earlier. ;)
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Well, I've had the same delema.I had a boyfriend for almost a year and then he thought i was cheating on him so he broke it off. After that he turned into a TOTAL jerk.But, now we're friends...I guess.If he's had 2 g/f's since y'all broke up he's not worth waiting for.Wait for him to come crawling back to you,don't go to him. Act like it doesn't bother you,and it will TOTALLY bug him that you're not upset.
hope it helps,
kT
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well, youve got a mess on your shoulders, dont worry I can help, ok he probaly is doing all these unusual things to make you jealous like going out with other girls to get you back. now your seeing his sweet side once again when he wants you back guys do this all the time dont worry have a talk with him and tell him that it is really hurting your feelings. and then the sweet guy you knew is still there and will quit all that non sense and come back to his sweet side!!! trust me!
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Trust me, hes not over you as you think he is. This is his way of trying to get over you. He thinks that seeing other girls will erase you out of his mind, but its not. I know its hard to see him with someone else, but maybe you need to let him know that all you wanted was a break. If you've already made that clear to him, just go up to him, write him a letter, call him, or something and say, "I don't want things to end up this way, all I wanted was a break for us, I don't want us to end forever, I still love you." I know it seems really helpless to say you still love him, but you should let him know. If he continues yto be a jerk, then, you'll have to just wait until he comes back for you, or until he does something besides getting angry and getting new girlfriends. Do you really think after 3 years of a great relationship that he'd suddenly be in love with someone else? No way. Hes making a common mistake in relationships. He'll get it.
-TheTeenGirl
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he probably still likes you he just doesn't want to tell everyone that he was told that he wanted a break by sumone so he just dumped you and going out with other ppl to get his mind off of you because i kno someone who did the exact thing for me too.
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I think he still likes you. I mean, if you've been going with him for almost 3 years, he can't just stop liking you all of a sudden. He probably went out with the other two girls just to make you jealous and is acting like a jerk because he's mad. When you said that you wanted a break, he might have taken that as "I want you out of my life." Just wait a while. Then, ask him why he's mad at you and tell him what you really meant. If he still acts like a jerk, then forget about him.
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wow, your story sounds like mine. Its been a year since my breakup. Its been hard, but im keeping busy.
Guys have this EGO thing that they just cant get past when a girl breaks up with them or just plain rejects them. They dont know how to be nice to you anymore. My ex is the biggest jerk ever. I cant believe him and i once had a beautiful relationship.
Mine permanately ended the night he asked me back out, then in the same sentence told me he was taking another girl to her h/c. I said no to him and since that fateful night hes put me through nothing but HELL. He has said some of the cruelest things any1 has ever said to me. He acted like him and the girl he took to h/c were a couple. (he told me he wanted me to realize something)
Then when i didnt come crawling back to him like he thought i would, he found himself a little 14 yr old. Screwed her the 2nd night they hung out. I didnt find that part out until months later.
The sad part is i would have taken him back, but not after he screwed that slut!!!
I put up an away message 1 night that basically told him goodbye. The next night he asked the slut out.
He used to cry over me..alot! Hes been with his gf now for almost a year. Shes broken up w/him tons of times because he treats her like shit, but she always goes back to him. He has NEVER cried over her. What does that tell you?
Im not sure what you want to know. Do you want him back, or do you just want to know how to deal with his behavior?
Even though you and him arent together as bf/gf, everything he does will affect you, and its gonna hurt. For me, the more he ignored and talked shit to people about me, the more it made it alittle easier to go on.
You just have to say to yourself, that you dont need to put up with such immature behavior. Your gonna be stronger because of this, trust me!!
He doesnt hurt me as much anymore. Its just the damn memories im having a hard time dealing with.
If you want to talk, i have a s/n. Just ask me for it.
Good Luck to you!!!!!
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ok well lets see thsoe 2 girls meant nothing to him he just is trying to get you out of his mind but really he still likes u i would just go to his house unexpectadly and say i need to talk to you and tell him y u wanted a break and maybe he will understand and eventually you guys will end up together again
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those 2 girls were rebound girls. they meant nothing to him. he just wanted someone to get his mind off of you. communication is the answer. make a suprise visit to his house with his fav food or somethin..and have a talk with him. thats the answer. get everythhing out..and hopefully once things are clear you will kiss n makeup
if its meant to be , you two will end up back together.
-melissa-
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Try talking to him and explaining to him why you wanted to take a break. Let him know that you still got feelings and you dont want to lose those 3 precious years over something small. Ask him how he feels and how he can just get with other girls so fast. I think that he's going with these other girls because he's either testing you or he just isn't sure what to do. If things dont turn out right then girl your going to have to move on and remember what you guys had, know that your future awaits you. Hope this helps!
-Manda
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i think he's just trying to forget about you and move on. CLEARLY it isnt working (i mean, hes had TWO gf's since ya'll broke up). hes hurt just like you are. maybe you could call him and work things out.
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Move to a different country and forget he exsists.
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