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How do i get in good with the boys? I want every guy to notice me and i want them all to love me.. but how do i get a guys attention and how do i make that work. What makes a girl love a girl as a friend?
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well I am sorry to say that ytou cant get every guy to like you but i can tell you to flirt DESCRETLY do not flirt big time with every guy you got your eye on because then ppl will look at you as a slut but just think of flirting as a gift you can use all the time!!!
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♥ be one of them..like dont dress all boyish..because that will ruin it..be cute and fun and flirty..and make sure they can get along with you well like find some kinda way to like what they like..but keep it cute n flirty then theyll love you!
x3-Janee'
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First, don't expect EVERY ONE to like you. Not every one will no matter what, because you can't please every one. But you can still make a majority of people like you.
The boys like girls who are cute and dress good. I would tell you otherwise if I could, but honestly, the world really is that shallow. But even people who aren't necessarily pretty can still have a lot of friends, and boyfriends. A lot of it depends on the personality. For example, if some girl was hot, but was a complete bitch to every one, no one would like her. So personality definately helps.
Guys like girls who smile a lot, and seem approachable. I can't really say too much, because I'm not a guy...but if you're nice, and funny, and fun to be around, then you should be okay. It also helps to have a sense of humor, and joke around with guys too. I know I've joked around with guys about things that a lot of girls don't, and they'll say to me "Dude you are so awesome! Most girls wouldn't find that funny or would think it's gross!" So having a sense of humor would help get along too.
To be a good friend......Don't talk too much shit behind people's backs. I don't know how old you are, but a lot of middle school/high school has a lot of shit-talking going on during most of it. If you do it too much, people will think you talk badly about them too. I know that I trusted the people more in my group of friends that DIDNT join in on the trash talking, then the ones that did. Because I felt that if I told the ones who normally gossiped to the group something, then they'd go around and tell some one else. Trust is an important thing in anything relationship, whether it be in a friendship with a girl, or dating a guy. So it's definately good to have people trust you. It can bring you closer to them when they're feeling down and needing a friend, or need some one's advice.
To be a good friend, don't talk too much about yourself. I always make it a point to ask my best friend how her day is going, and to try to remind myself to ask her about updates on things. Such as "hey, remember last week when you were supposed to write that essay I was trying to help you with, How'd that go?" That's just an example. I guess this could go along with how to get guys to like you...Don't talk too much about yourself. Let other people do the talking sometimes too. I know I had that problem for a while. If you ask people questions about their life, it makes you seem interested, and like you actually care. You'd be surprised at how little people ask and seem interested in others lives. I know my friends don't really.. So it might mean something to some one when you do. If your friends feel that you care about them, and that they can trust you, believe me, you're doing good.
Oh, and just be FUN! I always want a friend who can be serious when I need them to be, but can also be fun a lot too.
I'm so, so sorry that this is so long. But I hope I helped you. Good luck.
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Honey, let me just tell you 1 thing. Guys luv it when you flirt with them, it makes their day trust me. The number one rule, always flirt, it doesnt matter if you dont like the guy. Another thing always smile, dress cute and be sweet and playful. Also, guys luv it when girls laugh. Take care
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