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ok my boyfriend is about 20 and i'm about 16 and my supposelly home girl is telling him that im messing around on him with his best friend but im not and i guess he's believing this because he doesn't want to talk to me or his friend honestly i'm not the type to be doing something that bad and i don't want to break up with him because i liked him for three years and i dont wanna hurt him in ne ways
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I have been there so your not alone. If he is accusing you of something like that then you shouldnt be with him. I know you have been with for 3 years but he doesnt seem to trust you at all. Why go out with a guy who treats you like that. He doesnt he believe you when you tell hi otherwise. I think you can do better and you can find someone who really cares enough to not have to ask whether you ae with someone else.
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You're 16 sweetheart. I found the love of my life @ 16 and we're gettin married in 2006 (I'm 18 and he's 20) The difference in age is tough...tell you're so called friend to blow it up her ass, and listen to me CLOSELY, guys get insecure, so don't just dump the guy, he's insecrue cas he likes you too. Tell him once more that you want to prove to him, you want him to believe and it'd mean the world if he could tell you how. Tell him you got rid of your 'friend'.she's not your friend honey she's lying to him becuase she wants him and is trying to steal him from you. if he can't just forget it and believe you, tell him you'll find someone more major and trusting, that'll either shut him up or let you know, he's NOT it, keep looking honey. Best of luck
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ok i cant really complain about the age seeing as i am 18 and my fiance is 22, same amount of difference. only difference is, is that you are a minor. so basically you have to force this guy to listen to you. you have to force this guy to lisen to your freind. if he doesnt believe you, then he doesnt trust you. you can not have a relationship with out hte foundation of TRUST! so basically you guys need to talk. if he doesnt trust you then maybe he is not worth your time. you gotta have trust, i will drill that into your head right now. liek i said if you dont have trust you dont have a damn thing! well you also need to go to this "homegirl" and spell out whats happeneing. see if she DID say anything. cuz basically it would be her word agaisnt your boyfreinds. basically y'all need to talk and straighten shit out!
The future mrs steven mark jones
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your 'home girl' (i guess that means best friend?) isn't your friend. No true friend would ever say that to your boyfriend, whether it was true or not. So... looks like she has cost you a good boyfriend. I think you need to 'break up' with your home girl, especially if this guy is worth it.
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communication is te best thing in a relationship.talk to him .and if he loves you like you loved him ,he should trust you and believew you.and as for this home girl.shit her.maybe shes jealious of what you guys have.and she likes him too.
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well don't take take this to offense but don't tell us tell him. tell him what you jsut said that you don't want to hurt him and that you love him and that he means the world to you and that that guy means nothing.
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Wow this guy is a bit old for you but thats your business.. um well apparently if he can`t trust you and believe you before another person then thats not a faithful relationship.. just let him go if he doesn`t believe you.. try and explain yourself.. ♥ Dez
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well if he believes it and hasnt discussed it with you first, then he doesnt trust you and thats not good. Not to mentions hes MUCH MUCH older than you, and that could get you into trouble, but idk.
Talk to him, if he still doesnt believe you, then hes not worth your time!
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All that you can do in this situation is keep being honest with him. Reassure him that what he is hearing is wrong and that you wouldnt do that. Now if he continues to be upset than why are you gonna keep being punished for something that you didnt do. Let him know that if he cant trust you than maybe the relationship isnt gonna work.
But you need to know this yourself. You cant keep going on trying to prove something to him if he wont believe you. If he is that untrusting than maybe he isnt the one for you.
He has to trust you in order for it to work.
Eva J
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