I'm 19 years old, I'm married to the love of my life. I want everyone to know that love is out there, hold out for it, don't ever rush anything, you really do have lots of time before everything is lock-stock-and barrel. Don't forget it, there is a man out there that will not beat you, and will not hurt you in any way, find him, don't settle for mr. righthere, settle for mr. I'll treat you right.
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i got rid of the friend and his friend says we're boring because all we do is cuddle and he's getting on my nerve and his friend started to hit me like throwing some hard punches @ me. his friend is a lot bigger than my boyfriend and his friend is mad cool but i cant take any more pain so how would i tell him to stop hitting me but not get him mad @ me (link)
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He's hitting you?! Who r u trying to not get mad at you? The boyfriend or the friend? This friend sounds like trouble. If you're boyfriend isn't telling him to stop (He sees him hit you?) tell him, "Honey, He hurts me when he hits, we have to let him know to tone it down or stop" keyword is WE, you are a couple and your boyfriend needs to tell his friend to stop or getlost. I'd definetly question your man first. Cuddling is good, YOU'RE not boring, this guy needs a girlfriend REAL bad, so if he won't quit, try to set him up with someone, he's gonna wreck your relationship by wedging into the middle. This is a tricky one, I hope I helped you some! Best wishes! and GOOD luck
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I need some help from you woman only please. Some nights may husband is in the mood and we could go for a long time and other nights he just pushes me away and tells me that he's not in the mood. But when he's in the mood I better be. On fridays nights he'll stay out until 2:00am and that. I have asked him he's cheating and he tells me no.Should I believe him that he's not
cheating on me and let it go.
Hope someone can help. (link)
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It sounds as if maybe you're husband is bipolar. I don't know that he's cheating sweetheart, I think he needs to seek dr.s advice about this. He may have a chemical inbalance in the brain, this could cause serious mood swings, and violence that isn't meant. Don't you worry honey. I believe that there is great hope. If he doesn't want help, I don't know what to say, consult your physician, tell him you are afraid, he can talk to him. I wish you all the best.
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ok my boyfriend is about 20 and i'm about 16 and my supposelly home girl is telling him that im messing around on him with his best friend but im not and i guess he's believing this because he doesn't want to talk to me or his friend honestly i'm not the type to be doing something that bad and i don't want to break up with him because i liked him for three years and i dont wanna hurt him in ne ways (link)
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You're 16 sweetheart. I found the love of my life @ 16 and we're gettin married in 2006 (I'm 18 and he's 20) The difference in age is tough...tell you're so called friend to blow it up her ass, and listen to me CLOSELY, guys get insecure, so don't just dump the guy, he's insecrue cas he likes you too. Tell him once more that you want to prove to him, you want him to believe and it'd mean the world if he could tell you how. Tell him you got rid of your 'friend'.she's not your friend honey she's lying to him becuase she wants him and is trying to steal him from you. if he can't just forget it and believe you, tell him you'll find someone more major and trusting, that'll either shut him up or let you know, he's NOT it, keep looking honey. Best of luck
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Ok, well... my best friend is a guy, and his name is Chris. He's really awesome, and we're really close. I've always thought of him as a brother to me. But lately everyone has been asking me, "Are you two going out?" and "Do you like him?" and everytime my answer is "no." but lately I've been thinking, and I feel weird whenever I talk to him now. Whenever he comforts me about stuff, I just feel... really really happy. Rediculously happy. Almost..fuzzy inside? I don't know, but I keep thinking that I'm starting to have feelings for him. But we're just friends.. friend's arent supposed to crush on eachother. But I can't help myself.
SO MY QUESTION IS: Am I in love with him? and if I do why do I feel so uncomfortable?
Signed..
JUST FRiENDS (link)
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There are two things you can do. I've done this before, and found out that yes I was in love, but a different kind of love. You can 1. try dating and risk losing him forever or 2. just keep hanging out. But make this agreement, if you make out, and you or he says you shouldn't do it again, don't be hurt, you are BEST FRIENDS, and those are hard to come by, so hang on! There is hope....I wish you all the best, this will work out!
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Well I have a new boyfriend and my best friend is acting really weird like she’s saying that I am a leaving her for him but I m not!! What the hell is her problem? Why is she saying this I mean he’s a new boyfriend and its that honeymoon stage where your excited aand she doesn’t understand and I hate the way she’s acting like today in the library I she wanted me to go to her class for 10 min. and I was with my boyfriend and I said no because that’s stupid why would I go to her class when she’s acting like this? Im really getting annoyed with her. Please help!! (link)
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Here's the problem with guys and Friends. Boyfriends need and want all of your attention. But he has to understand that he can't have it all, just MOST of all of it. Your friend isn't being a very good friend. She has to be SO understanding. Give her an ultimatum, tell her ' you are my best friend and I love you, I'm not ignoring you, but if this relationship is going to work then we need to be here for each other, and I need to be here for him." if she doensn't understand tell her you'll give her time. If she needs you she should be able to call and you should jump for her, but she shoujldn't see this as losing her friend, she should see this as my friend is happy, and I'm SO happy for her! I"'m sorry, I wish you all the best.
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ok my parents are divorced and my dad lives in new york and my mom lives in ohio. well my dad invited me to live with him in 8th grade (because my mom was getting remarried and i hated the guy). so i moved in with him and my stepmom. Well, by christmas time she had kicked me out beacuse she didnt like me, so i had to live with my mom and stepdad. my dad LET HER kick me out like that. i lived with my mom and graduated high school with my fair share or fighting with ym stepdad. then my dad invited me back out to live with him to go to college. Well i moved in and my stepmom and i got along at first. then she started getting bitchy towards me. so i got a job. but that wasnt good enough for her! and i had put off college for a while so that i could aquire some money. well after 3 months she gave me a week to be out (of my dads house). well i had no where to go, so my dad said he would give my freind half of hte bills for a few months so i could get a job and pay it myself. well, time for him to pay came around and he made up a story and didnt send me the money. so my freind almost kicked me out until my mom made him pay. well basically what i am trying to say is my dad is a lying jerk and it hurts alot because i am a daddys girl. he is always telling my mom (via email) that i am a freeloader and i am a bum and i am lazy, and then tell me that he loves me! But he hasnt emailed me or called me since my stepmom kicked me out. what am i supposed to do to deal with this or anyhting i could do to feel better about what has happened? (link)
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I'm so sorry honey...that is something I couldn't deal with it, you are so strong. I'm not sure this is so much your dad as it is the new Wife. My best friend experieced the same thing, and my parents set him straight about it becuase they've known him. You are out of college? Get out of there. Tell him you're sorry he feels the way he does and move on honey, you sound THAT strong, you can do this. You don't need him. I'm just so sorry he feels the way he does. There is such great hope for you tho, you can do this honey.
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I am a 24 year old female. Please tell me how to choose between two 30-something year old men that are both in love with me. One I was engaged to but he had to be put in jail for domestic violence The other lives aproxamately 1,500 miles away. My fiance` and I are required to go to a councelor by the courts,but I am in love with both men at the same time too.( My fiance` was drunk at the time of the incident, he is really sweet when he is sober.) I don't know who to choose. Please send me some good advice on who to keep in my life! (link)
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Please don't marry this known domestic violator and drunk. You are a beautiful young woman who has the WORLD at her hands. My sister in law is in the same boat, and by the day she is more battered, don't lie for this man, get AWAY from him. becuase a man that drinks will always drink, and a drunk doesn't have control of their situation. Your life is so much more important than becoming a domestic violence victim.
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