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my dad is a real jerk
ok my parents are divorced and my dad lives in new york and my mom lives in ohio. well my dad invited me to live with him in 8th grade (because my mom was getting remarried and i hated the guy). so i moved in with him and my stepmom. Well, by christmas time she had kicked me out beacuse she didnt like me, so i had to live with my mom and stepdad. my dad LET HER kick me out like that. i lived with my mom and graduated high school with my fair share or fighting with ym stepdad. then my dad invited me back out to live with him to go to college. Well i moved in and my stepmom and i got along at first. then she started getting bitchy towards me. so i got a job. but that wasnt good enough for her! and i had put off college for a while so that i could aquire some money. well after 3 months she gave me a week to be out (of my dads house). well i had no where to go, so my dad said he would give my freind half of hte bills for a few months so i could get a job and pay it myself. well, time for him to pay came around and he made up a story and didnt send me the money. so my freind almost kicked me out until my mom made him pay. well basically what i am trying to say is my dad is a lying jerk and it hurts alot because i am a daddys girl. he is always telling my mom (via email) that i am a freeloader and i am a bum and i am lazy, and then tell me that he loves me! But he hasnt emailed me or called me since my stepmom kicked me out. what am i supposed to do to deal with this or anyhting i could do to feel better about what has happened?
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Right away this is not your fault. I know what its like to have a dad for a jerk and not liking your step-dad. You shouldnt have to please your step-mother and she is just probably jealous of you and the way for her to get that out of her system she has to make you miserable. If you try to not care that will bother her so much. The next time your dad asks you to move in with him you should tell him no. The best thing is to get college out of the way that way you can just take care of yourself instead of them. Sounds like you are not even lazy at all. If you dont have money for college then you should just live with your mother. I know that you dont like your step-dad but that is much better than being treated badly by your dad and step-mom. They are going to regret not keeping you and that is something that should always bring a smile. Your life is about you and not them. You choose what and wen you want to d something.
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I'm so sorry honey...that is something I couldn't deal with it, you are so strong. I'm not sure this is so much your dad as it is the new Wife. My best friend experieced the same thing, and my parents set him straight about it becuase they've known him. You are out of college? Get out of there. Tell him you're sorry he feels the way he does and move on honey, you sound THAT strong, you can do this. You don't need him. I'm just so sorry he feels the way he does. There is such great hope for you tho, you can do this honey.
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tell him to shove the money up his ass! you don't need to be dependent on your daddy to help you out! and as for the stepmom, dont let ehr bother you. if she is as bitchy as she seems, she isnt some one that i would want to associate with. personally, you juss need to not let what your dad has doen bother you. just go on and prove him wrong! you can do it!
The Future MRs Steven MArk Jones
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