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attention seeking?
15/f sometimes once i start to like a guy i think i become to attached to them. like i will want to talk to them all the time and i'll find stupid excuses just to be near them. and i feel like if he talks to another girls then i have to talk to him too. i know this might seem stupid but its true. so what can i do to become less obsessive?
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what might be the problem is your confidence in yourself is coming from whether a guy likes you or not. If you do this your confidence will always be let down because guys arent always going to please you. Try to let what gives you confidence in yourself not be what other guys...or just people in general think of you but what you know about yourself. It makes it easier so you dont have to be so dependent on what guys do. If they like you and want to be with you alot then cool..if they dont then theyre not for you. The guy for you will want to always spend time with you and you wont have to beg for attention from him. I hope I helped.
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Sometimes I have this problem too. What I would do is just to let him have his space for a little while like a couple of days and then he'll want to start being around you. when you're around him just tone it down a little.
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