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holiday dance
15/f i'm a freshman at my middle school and we have our big holiday formal dance this friday. i excited about it but also a little sad becaues i don't have a date. all of the three years i've been in my middle school i've never had a date to the formal. why is this? it makes me sad sometimes because a lot of the other girls have dates even if their not going out with the guy.
either how can i get a date by friday. or how can i stop getting so upset about this? thanks!
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Dear Holiday dance,
Okay, put yourself out there! Ask a guy to this dance. Or give them the hint that you need a date by talking to them about it. If this doesn't work, or you don't want to ask a guy yourself, think of it this way. If you go with just your friends you can dance with whatever boys you want to! You won't have a boy you need to commit every dance to. Good luck !!:) And have fun at your dance, whether your with a boy or just a group of friends:)
xoxo
Christine
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my winter formal was the friday that just past and guess what? i didnt have a date either. i was happy about it.. because i got to spend it with my friends and not some silly boy that'd probably stay with his friends all night. but if you're that worried about a date then just ask a guy you like. if he says no then you still have you're friends. just remember you have loads of time ahead of you and just look on the bright side.. someone will come around soon-ish and he'll sweep you off your feet and you'll forget all about some silly formal.
hope i helped.
be happy and happy holidays :]
Sara<3
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Ask some guys out! It should not always depend on the guy doing all the risk-taking. Sometimes really great gals get past up because of shyness, so take a chance and see what happens. Make it casual and go as friends. This will be less intimidating for everyone. The point is to go and have fun. Lots of people like to go as a group of friends and forego the whole pressure of having to show up as couples only. Find some guys and gals that want to go as friends or start asking some cute guys to go! Whatever happens, you need to keep trying.
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